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writes:i cant get a boyfriend and i was wondering if anyone has any tips on trying to get one? ive only ever had one boyfriend and that was ages ago and even then he only went out with me so i would do loads of stuff with him. but the worst thing is all my mates have boyfriends and they always say that ill find this special someone and they all ways say that this person is ace you should go out with him but i dont want to be told who i should go out with i want them to like me for me but that cant happen when every one walks past me calling me names and look away so i cant meet new people at school Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2007): I used to be worried about this too.. trust me alot of people are.. so don't worry, you're not alone. Boys don't take us seriously.. well the ones I KNOW dont.. a girl expects true love but what if they don't give that? The boys think of a girl as an acomplishment and having a girlfriend will raise their standard as COOL. So don't worry, you'll get there when they mature and see what a true girl is. Focus on your studies (seriously, this is very important, if you want those cute red Lanvin pumps) and you'll get through. Good luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2007): Dont worry about boys- worry about school and your health and family and extracirricular actvies- strengthen yourself as a person- men are a mess anyways until they mature( and sometimes they never mature...) So really just work on enjoying yourself- dont put out for something that isnt the best or who doesnt treat you with respect just so you will "fit in" those are where the biggest mistakes take place and the hardest lessons learned. Go jobbing or learn an instrument or language or work on creative skills- that way when someone comes along who appreaciates your talent- you will feel pretty darn good about yourself.. Keep yourself focused and occupied for now and dont worry about boys.. Hope this helps!
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