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male
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I'm gay and have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. Last year he left everything, moved 120 miles, took a new job and moved in with me. Since moving in he has done nothing to help with keeping the house or paying bills unless I specifically ask. If I question him he says "I'm lazy. You knew this is how I was". He also has a large dog that he gives free run of "our" house as he calls it, and if I mention changing any rules he tells me I don't like him or his dog. He also discredits my opinions and talks down to me. I'm really stressed out over what to do and it's affecting my health. We've had several fights about this but he doesn't seem to want to change, and I can't live like this any longer. He does love me but I don't feel the same way any longer. If I tell him to leave he will be very upset, have to quit his job and move back home with nothing. I don't want to have to do this but I don't know what else to do. Can anyone help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSome additional information to my original question. I am 38 and he is 20. He says I am not affectionate toward him or show any feelings for him and that I'm always tired. That's because I work all day then have to take care of everything when I get home. My health problems are due to the stress of everything. I know I'm not perfect by any means but I do what I can. I feel he just doesn't appreciate me or give me credit for anything. That's why my feelings for him changed.
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