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writes:hey im 16 and my bf is to. i have been wiv him for roughly 2 months.we go 2 the same school and today we were walking down the corridor with r arms round eachother as usual and we saw one of his teachers walking down the corridor up ahead. and my bf said 'oh no its miss white, let go of me, quick let go of me. sorry tht teacher will just make fun of me so much if she sees tht i have a gf.'i was a bit upset by this because i have had a bf in the past tht my current bf doesnt know about and he was ashamed to be going out with me and didnt want anyone to know about us. and tht moment just reminded me of him and how he was etc.do u think my current bf is ashamed of me? :( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2007): I certainly don't think he is embarrassed about you just a bit young. He was embarrassed that the teacher may see you holding hands but that is very natural at that age, especially for lads. I have two sons and they have both gone through this phase. Don't let it get you down. He will be ok with age in the future. Just a little immature right now.
Take care
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reader, zgeek  +, writes (1 March 2007):
 No I don't believe he is ashamed of you I think he was sincerely worried about the teacher or has had a past of that teacher bugging him or giving him a hard time about relationships even though that shouldn't matter . Don't let this get to you. talk to him about it ask why he did that tell him how you felt.
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reader, vina_101 +, writes (28 February 2007):
 No I don't think he's ashamed of you I just think he's a bit immature. It really shouldn't matter what the teacher thinks but maybe he just doesn't want to be embarrassed. I'm sure you're a great girl and any guy that has you should count his lucky stars. Please don't let this get you down or destroy your confidence. You should tell him how you felt about what he did that day and let him know that he should be more considerate of your feelings. You know ask him 'how would you feel if..' and just get your point across that you didn't like the way he dealt with the situation and tell him in future you don't want that happening again.
If after that you still feel he's acting strange then you should find another guy. It won't do you any good being with another guy who makes you feel lousy. You deserve better than that. But I'm sure if you talk to your current boyfriend and let him know how you feel he should change for the better. xx
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