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writes:I need help. I was dating this guy for three years. We broke up twice in the middle of the relationship, but fixed it. I have a problem that when things start getting hard and I start finding other guys attractive, I would break up. Well, I thought that I really liked this other guy and broke up with my boyfriend. Me and the other boy went out for three months. When I hang out with my ex, I start getting those strong feelings again. I realize that I'm not the smartest person and I wish I could take it all back. I lost my virginity to this guy and I finally realize that no matter what, I'm always going to be in love with him. THe problem is that I don't know if he wants me. We can hang out just fine and he flirts with me, but I don't know how to bring this up to him since I've hurt him soo much. I just want some advice please.
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (23 August 2007):
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey thanks for the help. We talked about it and we're just waiting for our lives to calm down. We both know that soon we'll be ready to start it again, we just need some time to hang out. I really appreciate all of the time you guys spend doing this.
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reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (20 August 2007):
Or he likes you, but doesn't want to be hurt again. all you can do is talk with him about it, plead your case and see what he says. But be prepared for a "no" since you broke it off twice already and he probably doesn't want it to happen again. Your confusion is confusing him.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (19 August 2007):
 You are just going to have to tell him how you feel about him, because if you don't you will always be wondering what if.
If he has been flirting with you then he must still like you but just does not know how you feel.
Talk to him and good luck.
Take care.xx.
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