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writes:I've recently become single and am looking at my options for potential boyfriend's. The other night I went clubbing with some mates (despite believing that clubbing isn't the best way to start a serious relationship) and ran into a guy from my old work. He's a very conservative type of guy... not sleezing and isn't one to really chat a girl up I don't think. We talked for a fair while but then his friends wanted to go so they left. I ran into a few times later in other night clubs and we said hello and so on. I always liked him when I worked with him but he had a girlfriend at the time. They have broken up since. I don't if he likes me though :S He had drunk a bit when I saw him at clubbing and he wasn't anymore forward then usual. Is that because he's not interested? I thought alcohol usually makes people more forward?So that is potential boyfriend numebr 1 ^Number 2 is a guy I know from university. I have known him for this whole year but we never really got that close because my last boyfriend would accuse me of horible things if I spoke to a guy... but we did talk here and there. Now that I have broken up with my boyfriend and he knows, he has been talking to me A LOT more lately and I'm wondering if this may be because he's interested in me? Not only that, but he's said some comments, like saying I look like this famous person who he thinks is cute. He was going to come clubbing with me the other night but he had no way of geting there and sent a message saying 'I would really like to be out clubbing with you tonight but I can't because I have no way of geting there :( but I will def go next weekend'. Do you think he's interested?So I have a choice between two guys and I'm not sure who to go for... Do you guys think that either one sounds interested? I'm a bit hesitant at guy number 2 because he has some things that remind me of my ex- like he is REALLY out going and I find that a bit anoying... and so many girls love him. I get jealous easily whereas guy number 1, he's nice and conservative and doesn't have a million girls chasing after him but if I was to go for number 1, it would be really hard beause he seems like the guy who isn't very forward.What should I do?
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reader, somewhat_anonymous  +, writes (20 August 2007):
It sounds like number 2 likes you, but you never know about number 1. Just because he had a couple drinks and didn't hit on you means nothing. See if you can figure out whick one you like more and probably share more in common with. Go for him and see where it goes.
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