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writes:Can feelings be re-created? My partner and I split up earlier this year and I know he really wants to make another go of it with me - neither of us has seen anyone else since we split up.We didn't live together but were together for over 4 years. I do miss him but I'm just not sure if I have enough feelings for him to make the relationship work. He started to feel more like a friend to me and I'm not sure whether I could get the physical attraction back - has anyone else felt the same? I know he truely thinks the world of me and desperately wants us to get back together. I just don't want to go full steam ahead and then realise that I can't feel for him what I should.What can I do? I'm going on holiday next week for 10 days so that will give me time to think but then I need to know for sure what I want - Help if you can!
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reader, Karen - Louise  +, writes (20 August 2007):
 Hey,
I think its pretty clear what you want just from reading your question. You say you are not sure and dont want to move too quickly and realise later you've made a big mistake. what this tells me is that you already know that this would be a mistake if you were to go through with it. And while feelings can be re created, a break up is a breakup because something in the relationship wasnt quite right. While he may still feel the same, I suggest that you tell him how you feel.
Good luck and have a great holiday,
Karen - Louise
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