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What's the next step for me in my relationship?

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Question - (19 August 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 11 December 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been going out with this girl for just over three weeks and we have really grown to love each other... I like her a lot and I want to take our relationship further but I don't know how far I should go... I can tell you she really loves me and I love her a lot.

What should I do? How far should I go, I really luv this girl

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007):

omg me and my boyfriend are having the same problem we been dating for months he wants to go to the next step we both dont want sex and well we dont know how far to go or wat the next step is after kissing

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A female reader, broken babe United States +, writes (20 August 2007):

broken babe agony aunttake it slow hug her more and more call her more kiss her in front of her friends dont be shy in front of your friends do you know each others parents? once you do all this and still like her and you dont care how long it takes than you love her im in love to and it took me my boyfriend forever to do all this and we love each other very deeply

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A male reader, Charlie84 United States +, writes (20 August 2007):

Taking it slow makes allows you to build the relationship and enjoy one another. You get the chance to feel one another out in a relationship setting. You may have known her for more than 3 weeks but being friends and being emotionally and physically involved are above and beyond friendships. I'm sure you care for her deeply and vice versa but don't confuse caring for someone as love. Love is very deep when its true and when it hits you, you wont have to say it to know its there.

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A male reader, somewhat_anonymous United States +, writes (20 August 2007):

What the last two guys said. It takes more than htrree weeks to truly love someone. You barely know her. Hollywood movies trick teenagers into thinking that couples fall in love within three dates. Sorry dude, those are just hormones.

Take it slow. Most relationships that get a big start and move fast end just as quick. Especially if you're already tossing the "L" word around already.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2007):

ive known her for alot longer then three weeks we have just ben goin out for three weeks

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A male reader, gandalf United Kingdom +, writes (19 August 2007):

Somehow I think it takes longer than 3 weeks to fall in love with someone this isnt the jeremy kyle show.

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A male reader, vpdragon0 United States +, writes (19 August 2007):

vpdragon0 agony aunthehe. dats sweet i love my gf aswell ..we deeply in love. but u have to respect her and how things going for both of you guys. my gf and I are just taking it slow. She had her first kiss and she was shocked dat it was me.. so right now. we're just taking it slow .. whenever shes ready to comfirm to me.

i say dat u guys should talk to each other and how u REALLY feel. I think you guys should take it slow, becuz ur still young and if you really love her u should take it slow.. no pressure..

make her happy =]

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