Is it a good idea to jump into another relationship, even if you have been cheating with that person after being in a long term relationship? Are they any pros and cons.

A male age 51-59, anonymous writes:

My ex of 17 years split up. I have been to counselling and been keeping myself busy, doing things that I have never done before. She did not give me any closure and it was only when I turned up at her work place a few weeks later that I discovered that her new boyfriend was pickng her up in her car from work. The counsellor did state on the basis of what I told him that she was in mess and I should not go back to her. She has made no contact. Is it a good idea to jump into another relationship, even if you have been cheating with that person after being in a long term relationship? Are they any pros and cons.

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