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writes: i really love my wife , but we just dont get along anymore . we argue all the time and dont make love anymore at all . could it be that we had a child 11 months ago ,and thats what takes up her time constantly ? . i try to help as much as i can but my wife is always tired and never up for it . i do love her and miss the closeness that we had in the past . Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2006): Hi i have a little boy of 22 months and i find that me and my husband fight a lot of the time as well.
I think it is because we have different views on how to bring up our son,what has worked for us is this you need to sit down togeather and talk about the problems that you are having also you need to set aside some time for just the two of you.
If you cant get a babysitter then when your baby has gone to bed cook a meal and have a bottle of wine light some candles and have some soft music playing it dose'nt have to lead any where you can just sit down and talk.
You need to remmeber that you were a couple before your baby came into the world!
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reader, clara +, writes (24 May 2006):
your wife will come round the best is not to pressure her but continue to tell her how much u love her and hw good she looks it could be that she needs more self esteem, arrange for a babysitter take her out do something yo used to do b4 the baby reminder her of old times and how good it was or you can try talking to her about the present situation let her know how you feel but that you also understand her pressures of being a mum, hope it helps and it all works out well x
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