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writes: I have been messed about by several lads in the past, who have basically just used my gullibility and niceness to get me in bed.Now I don't trust any guy whatsoever. I feel like they are all just after one thing!!How do I tell if they are genuine? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2006): Also it is possible that a guy is genuine but sex is also almost or just as important as prolong the rest of the relationship. Some guys just want to have sex. Others, want to have sex and continue with a relationship. Then there are others than just want to be friends, get together, and sex is just whatever.
Of course, what Hopeful below has mentioned, you should definitely try to get to know them better before hopping into the back seat of a car for some hot one on one action [laughs].
Remember, you're in control here. You just either have to recognize the boys with a similar personality, or just be more cautious, but NOT paranoid.
Try to take this into heart - it's VERY EASY to sweet talk, say "I love you" which nowadays is over-used and over-rated, and it doesn't matter how much you make, buying things like flowers, fuzzy aminals, jewelry, etc, etc, etc are convenient and a great way to charm a girl into bed or anywhere soft... 83
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (25 May 2006):
 You can tell straight away if they are genuine but holding back on the physical stuff until you are comfortable.
A genuine guy will want you to be sure before you go to bed with him rather than force.
Slow it down and get to know people before you jump into bed with them. This will give you a better shot at picking the good guys from the creeps.
If you are with a genuine guy and you ask for more time to get to know each other before getting physical, he will say no worries. A non genuine guy will run a mile.
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