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reader, Yos +, writes (24 May 2006):
Come up with some fun things for you to do together. Things that both of you will enjoy. Maybe go see a movie, or exhibition, or museum, or gallery. Or maybe you are near a good funfair, or a fun town or city to visit, or the beach? Or just go wander in a park or fields, take some food and have a picnic.
If he's a young guy he'll probably complain and be sulky to start with, but then end up enjoying it and having fun. Men are strange like that.
Spending time together doing things you both enjoy (other than just making out) is a good way to become better friends and grow your relationship.
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (24 May 2006):
Im guessing your pretty young, and well young men are very that way to begin but they do calm down.. well some do! Maybe sit and talk to him, let him know how you are feeling and ask if there are things that they two of you can do together to avoid the relationship being samey. Try and think of things you can enjoy together that dont involve making out, im sensing its a new relationship as you have mentioned how long you have been seeing him, so now would be a good time to get to know one another, dislikes likes and all that. Tell him that whilst you really love making out with him you really would love to try other things with him as a couple and take it from there.
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