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writes: My boyfriend (almost 19) and I (19), have been official for about a month now, but have basically been together for about three months (he was just too shy to ask me out). We are very alike in personality, quiet and shy, but do love each other. We are both virgins and both agree to keep it that way. As of right now all we do is make out A LOT, which is great. But I sometimes wonder is there that I could be doing for him. I mean I understand that there is "more", but I'm just not sure how or what the next step should be or when it should be taken. We both tend to be very timid and sometimes insecure but we are the perfect match....so with neither of us gutsy enough to stray from our comfort zone....what should we or, well, me be doing? Or are we ok? Ir how do I go about doing something else??? Ahh I'm probably just really lame or something, I don't know.
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reader, Ainley +, writes (24 May 2006):
 first thing i'll say is well done for waiting! too many people rush into things just to please the person they are with. all im going to say is take as much time as you or he needs because look at the picture, you've got all the time in the world just let things move naturally and if something happens it happens, dont stray from your comfort zone if your not happy if you want to then let yourself slide smoothly so even your not noticing until its over. and again i'll say well done for taking your time sugar x
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reader, ShortandSweet? +, writes (24 May 2006):
 Sweetheart - even in these days of in- your- face sex on TV and thrusting videos etc etc - you are still so young! Well done you for thinking about what you are doing! I am no prude - started sex at 16 - but if it's one thing I learned - it's - do things in your own time, in your own way. Timid can be a bugger - - if you are both ready, why not give eachother a dare? Write a promise on a slip of paper! " Tonight I will........" it needn't be anything major - just edging in the right direction! Make games, make it fun! Good luck! xxxxxx
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