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writes: I have a crush on my best friend. We just started becoming close and we both like eachother- its obvious. He does subtle things to be around me and never passes up an oppertunity to touch me in someway (innocent, of course!). We are always together and forever flirting and now I really like him. So whats the problem? He's got a girlfriend and they've been dating for 4 months, and I don't know exactly how he feels about her, but she's madly in love with him. And she's a total jerk to me but I'm not trying to break them up, I just don't know what to think about my feelings! Helpppp please!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2006): Haha ...
Screw the other girl!
... Joking.
Actually, if you give the dude some time, he might realize that you're the girl for him.
If he's your best friend, he would know and see that.
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Or, if you really love the guy, ignore him and give him space.
He also then might see that you need to be there for him, and you're the one that's the missing piece.
If he doesn't see that, he's not the one.
Maybe it's just that crush that just passes.
... Just wait for the things to happen.
Great things happen unexpectedly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2006): for me you its normal to fall inlove with a friend but you should accept that she have already a girlfriend.even its hurt you should accept it
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2006): Okaaaaay, then the problem is?
Well I guess I should explain myself... Key words are "best friend has girlfriend". She's a jerk to you because she feels threatened by you. That is all. Move along now...
Fine. Someone help the poor girl. I think sometimes I need some sensitivity training... 8P
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