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writes: Just a question. Is it possible for a gay man to ever truly fall in love with a woman? My friend has been dating a man with a homosexual past--she says he has at times been attracted to women but not strongly. They are talking marriage now. Do you think she is marrying somebody who could someday end up "reverting" back to his original tendencies or do you think he will be able to maintain his interest in her?
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (24 May 2006):
Bit hard to say, Some people are bi-sexual, its not just a fangled word, there are those that can equally have a relationship with the same sex or the opposite sex. My friend allbeit that shes female, had about 3 relations with women before she got married to her husband, shes never been happier. She just views in the same way, she loved that person, enjoyed thier company and had relations. I think it all depends on the circumstances who we fancy what we want to try and what we enjoy. We can all fall in love and it doesnt have to be the opposite sex these days by all accounts, there is alot more openess towards indidviuals sexuality so I guess it probably went on alot more before but we never knew about it,as nobody dare mention that they had a relationship with a man then went on to marry a woman. it doesnt mean they are confused, just that they are very strong in character know what they want and go after it. So in short, it could very well be that these to are a match made in heaven, there is no reason why he shouldnt be happy with her equally as if she were male.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2006): i dont think he will change his attitude as gay even if he got married &attracted to her he ll continue to get his satisfaction as he used to &the worse he ll try to keep both relations w is very disgusting to her
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2006): No, I think he will keep his attitude as gay even if he marries your friend. And also if he is attracted to her he will continue to get his satisfaction as he used to, but the worse situation he may try to keep both relations w is disgusting to her.
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