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The sex isn't great and I'm not sure I'm in love...

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Question - (24 May 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 May 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

Hi, my boyfiend and i have been living together for 2 years. Our sex life is not happening- he's not really interesting. I like him a lot but feel I'm not in love with him though I'm not sure what "in love" really is. Everything else is fine. Should I stay or go?

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A female reader, bonym United Kingdom +, writes (24 May 2006):

bonym agony auntIf you dont know what love is and you are not sure if you love him, why are you in this relationship? The simple fact my dear is that you are not happy with this guy and it seems pointless to carry on in a relationship which clearly isnt going anywhere. I dont understand what "else" can be going fine. You are not intimate with one another and you dont reckon you love him, it sounds like you are more friends than boyf and girlf. Its a boring answer and perhaps totally obvious, but my friend you should talk to him and decide where to take it from here. Its pointless pretending everything is ok when its not. All the best. xXx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2006):

I`m assuming that this is your first serious relationship. Right?Anyways,if there`s nothing about this guy that makes you head over heals, then that feeling is never gonna happen.In my theory, I think that you might be afraid to be alone, that`s why you`re holding on to something that is`nt there.I think you should end it before anything gets way too serious or before anyone gets hurt too bad.

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A female reader, cate +, writes (24 May 2006):

If you are not happy in this realtionship then it is not fair on your boyfriend to stay,you must leave and move on do you really want to stay with someone who dose'nt do it for you?

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A female reader, cate +, writes (24 May 2006):

If you are not happy in this realtionship then it is not fair on your boyfriend to stay,you must leave and move on do you really want to stay with someone who dose'nt do it for you?

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