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writes: hey. long story short, me, my now ex girlfriend, and her twin sister all live at uni together. me and the twin have been hanging out a lot recently. i think she has feelings for me, we flirt quite a lot.i can't tell if i'm attracted to her because it's my ex's twin, or because i've gotten closer to her.i still love my ex, but she finished it with me.what should i do?
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reader, supersonic +, writes (24 May 2006):
supersonic is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys, yeah i know it's creepy, it'd be hard to knock her back if she tried anything though. it's not a joke, she keeps saying things like 'you're the best looking guy in our house' (out of 8) and giving me hugs and stuff. the other night she even climbed into bed and watched tv with me. we didn't do anything, but it was still a bit strange.
it's weird because my ex has changed so much in recent weeks, not the girl i fell in love with. at the same time i've gotten closer to the twin. at the moment i feel like i know the twin better than the ex!
i won't be living with them from september, so i guess if something does happen it should be from then.
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (24 May 2006):
 I think it would be difficult enough dating your ex's sister if you didn't live all together. If your question isn't some sort of a joke (or a fantasy!), then you only have two options, as I see it:
1. Don't do it. It's creepy to date sisters, and I doubt that either one will like the idea that you can "compare notes" between one sibling and the other.
2. Move out of the shared house. If you insist on dating sisters, it's weird and awkward to be living with them both. It just seems like some bizarre polygamy experiment, and it won't turn out well for anyone.
Refrain, resist! Or move out.
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reader, rayoflight16 +, writes (24 May 2006):
Hmmm.... what a situation. The rule in MY house is that my sister and I are not allowed to date eachother's exes.. its weird, akward, and even gross. I don't know. I mean you could hide it for awhile, but that never works. Hmm, I'm trying to be helpful, so I'm just going to say: Ask her how she feels and then go from there.
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