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writes: I have been with this guy for about 3 1/2 months now. We get along great but strange little things have been happening. We didn't spend any time together New Years eve because he "forgot" to call. He says he isn't seeing anyone else and that he still wants to see me. And from the get-go our intimacy with each other is almost non existant. He would rather cuddle and sleep than have sex. He does work a lot so how could I get him more interested and should I talk to him about where our relationship with each other stands? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2006): Ask him whats on his mind. Chances are work is probably stressing him out and making him too tired for sex. Remember all men NEED sex sometime, you just have to put him in the mood for it. If possible try and surprise him with something new to turn him on find out what his deepest fantasies are talk about dreams so you can act them out. Men are horny creatures they just need a little lets say 'inspiration' men are visual creatures turn him on visually and you've got him for the night. Arrange a romantic weekend away with him, chances are he would probably be thankful for the rest. Or if all this fails wake him up with a blowjob or just sit on his face.
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reader, shania  +, writes (17 January 2006):
 This bloke needs a good kick up the arse! If he is like that with you after only 3 months,what is he going to be like in a years time? Im afraid he is what you call a boring,useless specimen for a man! Ditch him,you can do better.He just isnt worth the effort.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2006): I am sorry to say this but I honestly think your boy friend is gay. It all adds up. He goes to his boyfriends house on new years eve, he does not want sex because he doesnt enjoy it with females and he is just going out with you to show to his friends and family that he is not gay so nothing is expected. My old boyfriend did the same to me. If I were you I would follow him one day. please reply back to this from susan
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (17 January 2006):
 This guy would be better off getting a poodle than having a girlfriend. You need to decide whether he's going to be worth all the work to get him more interested. Tell him how you feel and what you want. If you don't get it, move one.
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reader, Elliekitten +, writes (17 January 2006):
 dear me i am very worried about this situation, i really think you need to sit down and have a serious talk to your b/f give him an ultimatum to show more interest in you or its over! he could be depressed and that would explain alot, but you really need to ask him what the problem is because there definitly is one! at three month you should be still in the throws of passion honey moon period should be in full swing, if you were in a happy loving relationship you wuold not be this miserable, think about it how much longer can you cope with this, good luck hope you work this out.
ellie
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