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writes: I don't know if I am with the right person. I may only be young but after being with my bf for such a long time we started to plan our futures together, we were in love and very serious. WE broke up and alot of the plans went with it. Even when we got back together I wanted to go slow even though he was trying to pick up where we left off, with a few changes. I still love him so much, but he has changed and spends most of his time on the PC and messing with his cars and motorbike. This really upsets me as he even does this in the small amount of time we are together (we 100 miles away from each other). His attitude has completely changed, he doesnt treat me like he used to and sometimes when we have sex I just feel all I am to him SEX. Do I carry on and see how things go?
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reader, Danielle1989 +, writes (19 January 2006):
Danielle1989 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell at the moment he does seem to have had an attitude change, I have not seen him yet but I will see what the situation is like when I see him. Although he seems to be acting very loving over the phone he is still leaving me to go on his motorbike this weekend, but at least hes promised to lay off the PC!!!
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (19 January 2006):
 Ok. You say you wanted to go slow at first but he wanted to pick up where you left off. Does that mean you wanted to delay the physical side and just spend time together at first? It seems that he hasn't really re-entered the relationship at all in an emotional sense.
I would say things need to change and you shouldn't just accept them as they are but on the other hand that doesn't mean you have to walk out of it just yet. Maybe you should focus on things that rekindle the romantic side of the relationship; a candlelit meal or something like that to draw his attention away from the PC and bike. I don't know the guy in question but plan an event that will suit you both but is special. See how things go from there. Good luck :)
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