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writes: Hmm, where to start. I've been looking at porn since I was like 13 or 14. Just do it like every day out of boredom, ya know? Well, anyway it has fucked with libido. I'm 18 now, and I can't get my dick to go full mast when my girl and I are fooling around.I don't know what to do. Help!
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reader, hurtandbitter  +, writes (12 September 2008):
I've been to that point before. You've conditioned yourself to liking it more. You have become used to the variation and thrill and convenience you get from watching porn on the internet that regular positions with your girl just don't cut it anymore. Just as you condition yourself to it, you can reverse the effect. If the sex isn't enjoyable for either of you talk to your girl about it. I hope she's the understanding type. Even get her to watch some of it with you. Convince her that watching it is beneficial for both of you since you might find stuff that you both like and could carry out in bed. Variation and trying out new things you both like is key.
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reader, onlinefriend +, writes (21 August 2008):
i have the same exact problem!!i think its from porn because i used to masterbate everyday ever since i was 13 and now im 18 i cant get it up easily but i gave up porn for 4 months because i was locked up and it kinda gets up now when im with her but not like i would like it to be...im getting help asap
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): ya i have the same problem... when i masturbate to porn i can get hard but when im with my girlfriend i have a rlly hard time getting it up... i start out strong then it just de-rects...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): i have the same problem. the last two times i have tried to have sex, i just couldnt get it up! I was hard when we started undressing and stuff, but later on my willy just died.... i tried so much to get it hard, even my partner tried by stroking it and puting in her mouth.... but no luck!!! I felt so embarrased, i have no problem getting hard while watching porn and i get off regularly, but when with girls... it just doesnt work...
i have decided to abandon porn and wanking for a few weeks and then try again! I will keep you guys posted about my situation... in the meanwhile, anyone have any advice for me??
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008): i think that it has a lots to do with the girl you are with
if she were s little more sexy it would have more fun
i am talking about foreplay and sexy clothing unseing her
panties on your face and oenis and just being sexy like she want to do it and takes the lead oce in a while like different doing it differnt,leeave the lights on and letting you see her, she is still beautiful and you have never seen her and would like too.
thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2007): Same prob here, takes me a long time to get rock hard with my women. she thnks its her idk maybe should try watching porn first. No trouble at all lookin at porn tho.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2007): Na dude..Its alright I had the same problem too..But if your girlfriend really loves you, and not a quickie..She should understand. Just tell her?..Next time your with her maybe play a dirty porno or something and try to react it..Which is always fun :p..
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reader, Danielle934 +, writes (10 February 2006):
 It could most definetely be the porn that is the problem. Since me and my husband got the internet, our sex life went from every other day to every other week. And you think that not having sex for 2 weeks would make him really hard, but since he is choosing porno over me regularly... the last 2 times we tried to have sex, he just couldnt get it up. I have told him on numerous occasions that porn was ruining our sex life, but he wont stop, he just hides it somewhere else. If you are not willing to give it up, then you really wont have a good REAL sex life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2006): i sometimes have that problem too. My guys dick just doesn't do it for me.
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reader, harshbutfair  +, writes (17 January 2006):
 Wonder if you could clarify, are you still "on" porn or have you given up?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2006): Seek professional counseling because if you can't help yourself you can't help any woman.
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