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writes: Dear Cupid,I have fallen for somebody I cannot have, he is married (by 2 years) but we let temptation get the better of us and I'm now worried im pregnant. I know in myself that I wouldnt be able to keep the child for financial and emotional reasons and i know that sounds terrible. But if I do decide that I have a termination do I have to tell him and what would I tell him. I know he loves his wife dearly and he is 13 years older than me and he doesnt have any children. I know it was wrong but I dont know how to rectify it.
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reader, Carrie-Lucie +, writes (25 January 2006):
yes, you should tell him, but inform him in a quiet and calm way. dont try and pressurise him into anything, like being a dad or providing emotional or financial support - he needs to come to this decision by himself. he has a right to know whatever you decide to do and he may have some ideas. good luck - hope it all works out.
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reader, CCNJ +, writes (17 January 2006):
You already made the mistake of sleeping with a married man. The thought that you may be pregnant at this point could be just that... a thought. Even though you are saying that you would not be able to keep the child- the reason you want to tell him is because you feel he'd leave his wife for you. It is difficult to realize that the man who gives you so much attention may be using you because he feels good around you. He may even think he's in love with you. The truth is- he married his wife. For whatever reason- he is not happy. It is not your job to fix nor tear apart his marriage. You'll only feel worse in the end. If it turns out that you are pregnant- then yes- you will have to tell him. Until you know for sure... keep it as a warning for yourself and get out- now. You are wasting precious "pretty" years. Find your own prince charming- one who comes without the left hand jewelry.
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