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writes:I like this lad, and I think he likes me. But he says that theres no way we can be more than just mates over msn. I would like to just give up on him, and find someone else to fall in love with, but he's the only one who has shown any interest in me. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhiya, thanks for the response. He goes to my school actually, but because of the social seperation between our friends and age groups, we never talk. I find it hard to believe in myself, because I don't feel anyone else does. I would like to believe in myself, but find myself feeling big-headed and silly. People, (like my mam and her friends, male and female) say that I'm pretty, but I just can't see it...
Thanks for the response anyway.
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (17 January 2006):
 First I would want to know what his reasoning for this descision was before I commented too much. Was it distance or some other factor? If it is an obstacle that is surmountable then you have a choice, if not then the descision is kind of made for you.
Internet relationships are very hard work and can be very complicated. If one or both of you isn't willing to put the work and commitment into it then looking for someone closer to home maybe a better bet. I am sure you have many positive qualities and that you can shine without the aid of MSN. Believe in yourself and I am sure you will soon have a line of guys wanting you.
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