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writes: I'm considering phone sex. Me amd my boyfriend have done dry sex(rubbing up against each other)and touching to get orgasms and to help us sustain from sex, but I got worried and felt like I wasn't a virgin anymore for doing this and have kinda stopped being physical with him. Is this okay, am I a virgin still, is phone sex considered okay or like you've practically had intercourse. Please help!P.s. I haven't the slightest clue what to do for phone sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2006): Phone sex is something that needs to be done when you are really relaxed, its normal to feel scared or worried you'll say the wrong thing, but the best thing to do is get a feeling of what your boyfriend likes. I dont mean really filthy things (unless your both ok with that), but ask him what he enjoys, oral sex etc. Men like the idea that a women is turned on during phone sex, so the more you enjoy it the more he will. A great way to start is to ask him if he could do anything right now what would it be. He may be a little shy at first but thats normal. Remember, phone sex is all about detail, so imagine yourself doing these things to him and describe what you see!Phone sex is NOT having real sex.
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reader, Buddy104 +, writes (17 January 2006):
You will still have your virginity until you have sex with him. Intercourse. Doin the nasty. Plugging the hole. Got it? :)
Dry sex, phone sex, oral sex... doesn't count as losing your virginity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2006): Hi
Phone sex is where you talk sexy, and about explicit subjects to your partner. You act out fantasies of what you maybe would like to do to him and visa versa. The purpose of this is to get each other hot enough so you both mastubate over the phone.
In no way have you lost your virginity doing this. Nor have you lost it because you are rubbing against each other. He has to fully penentrate you in order for you to lose your virginity. And Please Remember..No Glove No Love! Practice Safe Sex!
Enjoy!:)
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