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writes: I have a big problem. I have a boyfriend and I've liked him since high school, but I've met someone within the last year or so that I've grown to love and he really loves me. I just recently got into a relationship with my current boyfriend. I don't know what to do because I feel for both of them. Should I stay with my current boyfriend or begin a new relationship with my other friend? Reply to this Question
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (17 January 2006):
 Dearie, You should be with the one you truly love. follow your heart. Dont stay in a relationship because of pity or responsiblity u wont be doing this person or yourself any good.
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reader, Mr.Ed +, writes (17 January 2006):
 I tell this to most people; if your having feelings for another person in a relationship; you are not being fair to the current person nor yourself. If these feelings come and go then it's usually just a fantasy, but you have stated, that you have grown to love the other person. I would suggest that you not waste your current boyfriends chance of finding the right person and leave the relationship. Honesty with yourself and giving yourself a chance are the only thing you can ask of yourself; and honestly you don't love your current boyfriend or you wouldn't have feelings for another.
Sincerely
Ed
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