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writes: I am a beautiful, successful female. I own my own home and am financially independent. No children- 2 dogs. Why does it feel that I only attract men who have a child/children? Don't get me wrong- I love kids and they aren't the real issue. It just seems that these men all have 'issues'. It is now to the point where the drama is almost seeming normal. Examples would be: the man never married - moved in with me after short time with child: then man going through divorce: now- the man who was in a committed relationship for 9 years- never married- has daughter from that relationship. The last man I mentioned seems wonderful- he and his ex split 3 years ago- but I believe it was her decision. He has dated and had at least 2 relationships since then...yet he seems torn between his own happiness and that of his daughter. Is there a way to help him not feel guilty about not being with her every day? Should I leave this man alone? I really started to like him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2006): I'm curious as to where you're meeting these guys? Maybe that will lead to the solution. Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI did not mean to sound as if I thought I was "all that". My point was that I don't seem to be attracting men who don't have drama.
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