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writes: my freind is flirting with a 24 year old man.it has got to the point where he wants to get closer to her.but insted of saying she is not intrested in that from him. she keeps stringing him along saying maybe when she means no.do you think there is any chance he may turn nasty if she keeps stringing him along.
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (18 January 2006):
 I am assuming you and your friend are early teens. I don't know the guy so cannot give a totally accurate reading of the liklihood of him turning nasty however if you play with fire you do run the risk of getting burned.
Obviously your friend is finding the attentions of this guy flattering. It must be hard for you looking in from the outside and worrying over what your friend is getting herself into. However you need to try and keep your cool.
As a friend I would reassure her that you only have her best interests at heart and that is why you are concerened about what is happening. Recognise that while his attentions might be flattering but pose the question is that really worth the risk that this all blows up in her face. Dont force conclusions on her, let her draw her own. Also don't let the situation between you two become tense, if the discussion becomes heated then change subject and cool off. The last thing that is needed is tension between you two. *If* and remember that is only *if* things go wrong she will need her friends more than ever.
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