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writes: hello, i am 12 years old and 13 next month me and my bf have been talking about sex and are thinking of doing it but he as told me he has produce sperm before and ive started my period .my mum said if me or my sister got pregnat she wouldnt have anything to do with me or the baby and i know condoms arent always reliable. i wont to have sex but i dont wont to have a baby what is the best time for me to have sex if i am going to.by 3
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2007): Hey There, I'm going to have to agree with the other answers. Hun, if you have to ask, then no, you're not ready. I didn't. Look back on it now, I wish I wouldn't have done it. I thought I was ready, but I wasn't. Of course it is your choice, But I personally think that you should wait you won't look back on it and say Be Patient. I hope I've helped!! thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2006): if yout 12 going on 13 then you are WAY too young, and its bound to get you into trouble. be sensible and wait, do whatever in the meantime, nothing like that is going to get you pregnant. if you really want to then do, but any girl is worth way more than to have a bf that forces her to do anything.
and never ever do anything that you are uncomfotable with, you will most probably regret it (speaking from experience on that one)
i didnt start having sex until i was comming onto 18, and i dont regret waiting, infact im thankful i waited.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): Intercourse is very very very good at reproducing humans. Thats why there are billions of us on the planet. It really works. There is always a failure rate with any controception method- go look it up I'll wait- so if you cannot afford to get pregnant, dont have intercourse. I think any 13yo boy told that there is a 5% chance that he might become a father this year would be given pause.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): You are TWELVE! For heaven's sake, wait until you are 20!You DON'T need to be pressured by your boyfriend, and you DO need to do a lot of growing, emotionally, before getting into sex with anybody!You are still basically not yet out of childhood - just starting to approach adolescence.Forget about sex for now.
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reader, babieegirL +, writes (14 December 2006):
 Hey There,
I'm going to have to agree with the other answers. Hun, if you have to ask, then no, you're not ready. This may sound bad, but I gave it up when I was 13 and I regret it way too much. I thought I loved him, but I didn't. Looking back on it now, I wish I wouldn't have done it. I thought I was ready, but I wasn't. Of course it is your choice, But I personally think that you should wait until you know that somewhere along the line, in the future, you won't look back on it and say "I was such an idiot!" Be Patient. And remember, Once it's gone, it's gone forever! You only get that one chance to give it away to someone special.
I hope I've helped!!
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reader, Dr. Reality Check  +, writes (13 December 2006):
 If you have to ask you aren't ready, and my god, you are still a young child. Slow Down!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2006): When you are ALONE (at least for now).
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2006): Alrighty, well, I'll give you a rather impartial comment. Aside from what the law may dicate, for you to ask that question, obviously means you're not ready. There is no age that measures anyone being ready for sex. Sex comes when two people have a dynamic emotional and/or physical connection towards each other.
For me, I didn't have to ask myself whether I was ready or not. It was just natural for me to want to kiss her, hold her close to me, and lead to other things that she also reacted on. I never had to ask anyone whether I am ready at age 15, or 16, or 20, or whatever.
Basically, if you have to ask, then simply, you are not ready mentally.
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reader, Catlova +, writes (13 December 2006):
I know that right now is too early. In Colorado where I live, the minimum age is 16, as long as it is okay with your parents, but to do it without parental permission it is 18.
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reader, jodz +, writes (13 December 2006):
Not now, you are too young and I am 13 as well and have been in that situation but i respected myself more and chose not to do it. Most boys will only use you to have sex then leave you and you are right, if you get pregnant your crapped lol. But you shouldn't have sex. You and the boy can get into so much trouble and you need to be emotionally ready and you would probably regret it sooner. I hope I helped you
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2006): well first of all your not old enough to have sex. Its illegal under the age of 14. Ad children are not mature enought to have sex at 13 especially if you are unable to handle the responsibilities of having a baby. What about stds, do you know anything about them. Dont ruin ur life, wait until you know what love really feels like.
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