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writes:My Girlfiend of 15 month's just hate's us fighting and on saturday night she slept out i hated it. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/was-it-a-man-talking-in-the-background.htmllink to the saturday night thingnow she's dumped me saying she don't want a relationship with no one what does that mean?does it mean a) she doesn't wanna be with some 1 but want's to sleep around with someoneb) she doesn't wanna be with a guy if she's not with me it's easy for her? i asked her not 2 sleep with someone she said she will not sleep with anyone.all i got dumped 4 was loveing herwhy do u feel so downi asked her when she starting to think she want's a relationship again she sould call me she said she said she would. but she doesn't want me to wait that long 4 her. but i will she's worth the wait. help please is there anything i can do 2 get her backmy brother's girl said " stop talking 2 her and she will come crawling back " thanksi got her a bunch of flower's and put them in a teddy's arm's. i've been told she's huging this teddy last night. the flower's? (throw on the floor)i can admit i've tried 2 get her back and she's not trying anything she want's to be friend's(Agreed) but i want her more than friend's i asked her 2 give me 1 last chance in the bedroom she said no.i'm so stupid why as god done this 2 me do u sound to you lot like a bad boyfriend? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2006): I give up. My words has just fluttered like dust into a tornado.
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reader, stina  +, writes (15 December 2006):
 Hi Anon,
I don't know if you're the same person who posted this question (link below), but I responded to it. I thought it might be you because this situation sounds a lot like the one in the link (along w/ hugging a teddy bear and talking w/ your brother's girlfriend):
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/gf-is-cutting-her-hair--piercing-her.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondo u all think she will call me when she's looking for a r-ship again? or do u think she will wait till she find's someone new then want a r-ship with that guy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): Unlike Ms. Anon below, I don't know whether you deserve someone better or not. Mr. Anon, you sound like a very needy person. The other thread you made had people telling you that you have mistrust issues as well as a clingy mood towards your gf. First of all, you sound like a guy that can easily be stepped on. Second, you sound like a guy who puts on way too much effort for someone who just simply doesn't want to care. This comes off as being desperate. Women with the right-frame of mind, and even to those that don't, do not find desperate men attractive at all.
Heck, if I came off needy, desperate, and insecured, I'll smack myself some good sense, shave my head and become a monk instead!
Basically, you're not really listening to what any of us are saying to you. You are hoping to look for someone who shares the same concept with you.
In short, stop point your fingers at some intangible being, and stop pointing your fingers at your ex-gf. You need to work on yourself, and change those things that bring out the worst in you.
I suggest you stop trying to pursue her. It just doesn't seem like it will work mutually. YOU CANNOT MAKE someone love you. You can only try to influence her, and you're not at all being influencial. Second, you should step back and analyse yourself and work on yourself solely before trying to find someone to fill your void.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionafter 1 day no 1 give me an answer come on i need your help please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2006): You definitely sound a very good boyfriend & you deserve someone who appreciates it all. When someone says that they don't wanna be with you & neither do they wanna be with someone else, well that's just to console u. People change with time. Why won't u try moving on with life. Hanging out with your friends etc: Give her space. If she realises what she's missing out on she'll come back to you. If she doesn't well you are not the loser. Don't let this kind of a thing depress you. Move on, there'll be much more happier things coming your way. Trust me, time cures all the wounds...
Good luck..
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