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writes:Alright so let's start off by saying, I'm 16 and I've had a semi-regular period since I was 11 years old. So here's Problem #1. . . Well, like any girl, I dont enjoy my period, but it's reassuring to get it every month. I havent had my period since May! So it's been 1-2 months!Problem #2. . . I'm still a virgin! And when I say virgin, I mean the farthest I've ever gone with a guy is kissing him goodnight when he dropped me off at home. This isnt a problem for me at all except for the reason that I'm not getting my period!I really dont know what to do. I cant really talk to my mom about it because she doesnt trust that I'm really saving myself for marriage.*** One thing to know (and I'm not sure if it means anything or not) when I got my period in May, I got it twice! One at the beginning and one at the end. . . Please help as much as you can!
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reader, ConfusedQuestionaire +, writes (11 July 2011):
ConfusedQuestionaire is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAnonymous- I'm a pretty healthy person. I've always been super active and it's never affected my period more than a couple days. I'm hoping it's just the stress from my new job training.
Christian- I'm not on birth control because I have no reason to be. And I've never been naked in front of a guy nor vise versa. There is absolutely no way sperm could've gotten anywhere close to any of me.
Sammy- I've had my period for 5 years and it's been on a pretty regular cycle (with maybe one or two day messups) for the last 3 years.
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reader, sammy1986  +, writes (11 July 2011):
i wouldnt worry this is normal how long have you had them for because thats sometimes affects them some month you get one the next you dont they do regulate themselves though
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reader, Christian +, writes (11 July 2011):
did u start birth control this will cause irregular piriods...also i know u say no sexual contact but if a guy ejaculats on or very near your vaginal area it can cause pregnacy...look it up its true.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2011): I know you are concerned about talking to your mom about this but you have reason to be concerned. Your period(or lack there of) can be affected by stress,diet,excersize,etc. Other health issues can affect this as well and it is important for those to be ruled out. If there are any health issues, they should be handled sooner than later. If you cant talk to your mom, maybe go to an aunt or grandmother, but please talk to someone.
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reader, ConfusedQuestionaire +, writes (11 July 2011):
ConfusedQuestionaire is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you both! I checked out that website. . . And I also am going through quite a bit of stress with my nursing classes right now. I'm hoping that's the cause!
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reader, Claraw1  +, writes (11 July 2011):
 Hi, I have been through this myself at different times. You say you had it twice in 1 month, so I wouldn't worry about it, it is normal. Each person is different, not everyone gets it on the schedule that is perceived to be "normal". Stress can also cause this, I have found that in times of major stress in life I can sometimes miss a period, when I know that there is no possibility of being pregnant. If your very worried though, I would suggest going to see a doctor. I really don't think you have anything to worry about. Good luck and best wishes. i hope that I have helped in some small way.
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reader, Y_v +, writes (11 July 2011):
 CALM!... every girl is different. Some are irregular some are regular. It's fine, don't worry yourself too much, there is nothing wrong. You're completely healthy, just make sure you're eating healthy, exercise regularly, blah blah, etc. :) haa... i reassure you now that just as long as you haven't had any sexual activity it's all just down to your body's system of doing things right.
If you want any other help with your menstrual cycle just take a look at this:
http://www.avert.org/puberty-girls.htm
It seems as if you've just started. sooo... just relax everything is normal :) just research on the internet for any more info on it, there's plenty!
Have fun being a girl ;) x
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