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A guy asked me out but I was to busy with exams, what do I do?
Q. There is this guy who i met a while ago, he has asked me out a few times but i had exams to revise for so i've not been able to as i've had no time!! I haven't had time to even speak to my parents, sleep properly or have any social life.. He knows ...
A. 19 May 2012: Just wait for him to contact you, it as if he is in some kind of mood and is trying to make you fight for his attention. But i personally never play into these things and would rather wait for a text cause if they really wanted to talk then they ... (read in full...)
No matter what girl I talk to, I only think about one of my best friends
Q. So, I'm having a huge dating issue. I just got back from a date from this girl I just met recently and I had a pretty good time. My problem is no matter what girl I talk to, I only think about one of my best friends. I've had a crush on her ever ...
A. 19 May 2012: If your best friend felt the way you want her to then she would of shown you in some way. If you are in the friend zone then usually its hard to get out of it. Maybe you need to tell her how you feel so you can see how she really feels but it doesnt ... (read in full...)
I'm hurt and I don't understand what went wrong!
Q. Hello. I dumped someone I was dating for 2 years. I tried to be as nice to him, such as telling him it wasn't his fault, and that it was mine. However, there was quite a few things that WERE his fault. I just kept it all to myself, until he...
A. 19 May 2012: Your ex is hurt from the break up and is looking to blame you for what has happened as humans naturally just dont take blame due to pride.
Give him time and dont take it so personally as he is just looking to take out some anger and hurt on you.... (read in full...)
Should we run away to get married since parents are against it?
Q. I m 23 and he is 25 want to get married but my parents are not allowing me we were in relationship from last 11year now we are trying to run away should we do that just because of caste problem my family members are not allowing me ?please help me ...
A. 19 May 2012: Check whether you have the money to be able to support each other without the help of your parents.
I know what its like to have disapproving parents too so i understand.
If you dont have the money yet just wait a while till you do, you dont hav... (read in full...)
Girlfriend keeps breaking up with me??
Q. So I have been in a long distance relationship for the past 2 years. I currently live in Florida and she lives in Arizona. To make the long story short this relationship has been through so many ups and downs. She is bipolar and when I first met her ...
A. 19 May 2012: Have a serious talk about it with her about what she really truely wants and that her depression and problems are not an issue cause you want to help her cause you love her. You'll know it will be difficult but since you are moving closer to her you ... (read in full...)
I'm no longer a priority in my man's life. How to tell him?
Q. My boyfriend suddenly acts like he has no time for me. Hes always got something going on and it was fine I guess for the time been but now it's becoming absurd. Idk how I'm supposed to tel him that I dont feel like a priority in his life anymore and ...
A. 19 May 2012: Relationships sometimes settle down and get into a comfy zone and this is probably what has happened. Next time you see him face to face, explain how you feel and that you feel you guys are going distant and you do not wish for this to happen and ... (read in full...)
I don't want to love my ex anymore but I can't get over her
Q. my girl friend dump me a while ago and i still love her but she loves another guy how can i stop felling this way i want to not love her any more but i cant get over her how can i stop it...
A. 19 May 2012: Just stay away from her, you will need to face that there is no future together. It hurts a lot but you need to throw yourself into things which make YOU happy and try to take your mind off her. You arent going to wake up one day feeling like you ... (read in full...)
After 3 years he still hasn't said "I love you"
Q. There was this guy I was with in my college time, he used to visit me many times so I thought he was interested in me and started visiting and thereby got intimate but the thing is for about three years now since we've been in this relationship he ...
A. 19 May 2012: It depends if this guy finds it hard to show is emotions and express himself. After 3 years he will have strong feelings for you. Try do something nice like a romantic dinner, candles ect and tell him how you feel, if you do love him.
Howev... (read in full...)
He says it is over. I am broken inside. What can I do? I hurt so much inside.
Q. I cheated on my boyfriend. We were together for two years. I gave him my all. I saw sides of him no-one else cared to see. I looked after him when times went bad. I gave him everything he wanted. I tried to always make him smile. I ordered univ...
A. 19 May 2012: By the age range it says i think you will be about the same age i was when the same thing happened to me basically. im so sorry to hear about this. i know exactly how you feel. And that hes rejecting you, and you want him, you'll do anything, cha... (read in full...)
Will or can this affect my long time health? I don't have a regular girlfriend.
Q. I am 18 years old.i don't have any girlfriend till now. i am in a habit of hooking daily , i want to ask that is regular hooking affects our health or not. i tried to control it because i thinks it is affecting my health and i am not been able to c...
A. 19 May 2012: If anything they say it is good for your health but if it is taking over your life then yes it is over doing it.
Go out with friends more and do things to go out the house, play games etc so that you are not bored to the point that is the only thin... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose my friends. Does anyone know how to open a locked facebook page?
Q. Hiii dear cupids..my facebook i.d is temprory locked..i dont know why..they asked me to identify the photos in which i nd my friends were tag..rather than identifying is there any ways to open my account..plzz plzz help me..i dont want to loose my ...
A. 19 May 2012: All you have to do is look at pictures and say who are in them. If they are your friends then you should know what they look like. If you have lots of randomers on it and dont know what they look like then i guess you will have to just re-add them. ... (read in full...)
He asked, I replied. Now my answer is the reason he is breaking up with me. Can I change his mind?
Q. Hello everyone,i really need help on this.. I met this guy a couple of weeks ago and we started talking to each other on the internet.. We went out last night for the first time and he asked me with how many guys i've been.. I told him the trut...
A. 19 May 2012: If he doesnt like a part of you that you cannot change then he is not worth being in your life and your efforts.
He probably feels intimidated by your experience and is maybe jealous as in todays society i guess men can be judged on the little wome... (read in full...)
She's stopped talking to me. So should I break friendship with her or give her some time?
Q. There is a girl ,she is used to be very good friend of mine. we both are in same class.she is not committed and neither i am. we chat regularly on our mobile phones when we are at home and regularly in class.But few months earlier she suddenly...
A. 19 May 2012: This happened to me nearly exactly and i had to face that the friendship had ended on her grounds.
The only thing to do is try your best to move on from it and live normally and find happiness in new friends and leave her to it, she may real... (read in full...)
What have been your experiences with bad partners.
Q. I'm terrible in the sack! But this wasn't always the case. As a matter of fact, the first girl that I lost it too always loved our "encounters". To this day she says I am still the best she's had. And at the time she was my first, but I was ...
A. 19 May 2012: Communications is a big deal, to find out what each other like and what things you know from the past have worked well. Without communication then it can be boring!... (read in full...)
No experience with dating -- what's the best way to approach girls?
Q. I have no experience with dating and guess I want some answers so I can start crawling rather than running before I can walk. How should I approach girls with the intention of dating them (whether they are in a pub/club or casual setting)? Does r...
A. 19 May 2012: Rejection is just something that happens, but dont let it faze you at all! As not everyone is going to say no, so dont take it too personally, they could have boyfriends or issues themselves.
Think about getting a wingman, someone who knows more... (read in full...)
Does it seem like he likes me? How do I get his number? And how do I show him I like him without telling him?
Q. Helloo :) my crush is in the year above of me. We only talk in person (which I prefer to be honest) Because he is in the year above, he is in none of my lessons, however we walk home together sometimes. He flirts with me alot, he is playful like ...
A. 19 May 2012: 1) Seems like it is more than just friendship from what you have said, sounds like it is cute and playful.
2) Facebook is a great way and he wont say no to it so dont worry! :) Just have a chat like usual and it will be natural. If you have mut... (read in full...)
Why don't I feel what I should be feeling for my lovely boyfriend?
Q. Hi everyone, okay so just going to jump straight in to this... Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months now and he is genuinely the nicest, kindest, most thoughtful person I have ever met, he treats me better than anybody ever has...
A. 19 May 2012: I think that your relationship with him has settled down and you have got comfy in it.
You know hes always gonna be there kind of thing and making the effort and you are missing a spice in your life and a little uncertainty as you dont need to try ... (read in full...)
Why is my BF acting so mysteriously? he lied ,but then rushed back to see me. I don;t know where he was. Please help!!
Q. Please adive on my BF.Ok - so here it is.I've been dating this guy for 14 months, well I had a hunch last night.. actually, at 5 this morning, and I went round to see if his car was there. It wasn;t. I then called him at 5.45am. he did not answer. ...
A. 19 May 2012: Take yourself out of the situation its driving you crazy, literally. to go to his house at 5am and stuff it seems very controlling and possesive. Obviously if he doesnt tell you he doesnt respect you and if he doesnt respect you enough to tell you, ... (read in full...)
I have very little interest in dating. How normal is this?
Q. I am turning 20 later this year, and still have very little interest in dating or romance. I have never been on a date and never even been kissed. It's not for lack of opportunities - I just finished my first year of college and got asked out a ...
A. 19 May 2012: Normal is such an over used word and personally i dont like it. It seems that you have lost trust in guys due to the way you have been treated and seen in the long term it hasnt made you happy and you are okay as you are. The biggest reasons ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but have become interested in a friend. Is it just because I don't see my b/f so much?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and met when we first started university. I love him to bits, get the funny feeling in my tummy when i'm going to see him, get excited when I see his name pop up on my phone, physically ...
A. 19 May 2012: You have a good relationship with this other guy at uni and thats about it. In your question you basically answered yourself. Obviously exam time is hard cause everyone is so busy and its important to stay focused then make time afterwards. I also... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and I fancy my woodshop teacher!
Q. I'm 13 and I do woodwork in school. It's very hard,and the teacher lets me away with EVERYTHING!I take out my phone in class,and he doesn't mind. I walk around the classroom all the time and I never do my work! And I didn't do my homework,and ...
A. 9 April 2012: Sadly you know nothing can happen from this and when you are older you will look back and laugh at yourself due to the things you are doing in order to receive this kind of attention. If you are a hardworking pupil then of course teachers favour ... (read in full...)
I puked after giving my boyfriend oral sex
Q. Hi..this is really embarrassing but I need some feedback I gave my boyfriend head last night.. I've done it many times before he was my first so he understands I'm still learning!! I normally choke when I go all the way down on him but this tim...
A. 9 April 2012: He laughed it off, he was probably more worried about you being okay. Plus, he probably thought it was a compliment as "his dick is so big it did that" - even if its not!
But dont worry men enjoy it very much so it wont put him off at all just be c... (read in full...)
He told me he cheated but didn't tell me the whole story
Q. My ex boyfriend said he cheated on me and that it depended on what i considered cheating. He said he called a girl hot and flirted with her but didnt realize it till after. He said he was really super sorry. So then i brought it up with 1 of his ...
A. 9 April 2012: You have made the right decision. I am proud of you that you know what really you should do as you can sit and ponder forever about what really happened but noone really knows apart from them two.
Things are better ending now where you can move... (read in full...)
How can I draw boys attention to me without turning into a slut?
Q. how can i draw boys attention to me without turning in to a slut? ive never had a boyfriend, not even a little girl relationship, i think im ready for one now but i dont have the confidence to tell anyone that i have the hots for them, i myself dont ...
A. 13 November 2011: Have self belief. And if you like someone, just get to know them better like you would if you wanted to be friends with a girl. There isnt that much of a difference between boys and girls. You could talk about what you have in common such as ... (read in full...)
Why are girls like this??
Q. The story goes like this. When guy Smses her , she will say "what the hell? mom, dad around, stop bothering me, give me a space!". When guy stops doing so, she will say "you have got changed big time and no more care about me". When guy tells he...
A. 21 August 2011: Maybe its just the girls you have experienced. Whoever does that is extremely insecure, and you should give her space and move on with your life. Cause people who talk like that arent ready for a serious relationship and just thing that guys are ... (read in full...)
Tell me about love bites
Q. what is it called when a guy sucked or bites a girls neck? and will it go away? when?...
A. 2 August 2011: Its called a love bite. and depending on how deep purpley it is, it could be about a week or a lil bit more. just make sure to cover it with make up from your mum! Haha :P... (read in full...)
Can you teach someone to communicate?
Q. so right here it is in a nutshell. I have been dating this girl, she's apples, really a sweetheart, very very pretty, charming, the whole lot. problem is---she cannot communicate. when she is upset, she shuts down and wont talk. wont tell wh...
A. 19 July 2011: Speak to her, when she isnt in one of these "shut down" moods and tell her that you want to be there for her and that keeping it all to herself wont make her problems go away and that if she told you, you could understand what was upsetting her and ... (read in full...)
We got back together, but how long will it last?
Q. Thanx for the advice guys, but on Tuesday me an my ex got back together. I guess he really did miss me, but how can I tell how long it will last? The last few times its been a month, but we really missed each other, spent the whole night cuddling in ...
A. 19 July 2011: It is unknown but if you work at it and discuss how you want to be together and are willing to work through all the troubles you guys face then you will stay together. but you need to have a sit down at some point about what went wrong before and ... (read in full...)
Is he a twit or does he fancy me?
Q. I have a guy at school. Hes a twat. He teases me and stuff but he asked me out. I said NO, but now its end of term and the teases me again. I dont know if its him being the moron he is or if hes building courage. Hes nice but he thinks hes the ...
A. 18 July 2011: he seems to be confident. Sometimes guys tease girls in order to have some sort of communication with her. I think he is trying to show himself as confident as this helps him befriend people. I wouldnt call him a twit, as you said, he is nice. so he ... (read in full...)
Should I ask him if I can kiss him or just do it?
Q. So every year, me and my family go to this fete which my grandad sort of runs. Last year, I was working on a stall and I had to work with a family friend of my grandads, he is my age. We hit it off really well, he brought me candy floss. But ...
A. 18 July 2011: Seems as if you both really like each other and you dont want anything serious from it so go for it whenever you have alone time! He will definitely respond the way you want him to :P... (read in full...)
Dating for three weeks and he says he loves me and means it!
Q. I`ve had a boyfriend for three weeks. He never leaves my side and he always tries to be with me 24/7. Hes happy around me but not when hes with other girls. My boyfriend is now telling me he loves me and he really means it. Im starting to feel the ...
A. 18 July 2011: He may be saying this cause he has never felt the way he feels. It is not love yet and dont let the fact that you are young blind you into this.
As you are young then your most important things in your life should be your friends. because in the e... (read in full...)
I don't feel comfortable letting my boyfriend see me in full light!
Q. I still feel a bit awkward about the idea of letting my boyfriend see me without a stitch on during the daytime, or with the lights on after dark. I'm pretty comfortable about most of my body being unclothed but when it comes to the parts hidden by ...
A. 18 July 2011: I think all women feel this way! Everyone has these little things that we find as being ugly but to everyone else they dont see any problems! You obviously take care of yourself and you even said you have been topless already so he has seen tha... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to be trusting him? It all seems too good to be true!
Q. I'm inexperienced with guys and I can be really naive. So in really worried that I've been too believing with this guy.So I met this guy and we started talking so before I left he came up and hugged me his excuse he just felt like it. So that night ...
A. 18 July 2011: He seems okay and not being strange in anyway. So go for it, the date will be fun and you will see what he is truly like. One worry is that you seem to be into it very soon into it. Since you are new on this scene just take your time because it ... (read in full...)
Moving on. Is two montha long enough to wait before I start dating again?
Q. I have just broke up from my girldfriend of 1 year, but to be honest the last 2 months I may as well have been single. The first few months went well, but then I started to get very judegmental about her past, and I was nasty to her about it and aske...
A. 9 July 2011: When you stop thinking of her and if you would be okay with her being with someone else. you may convince yourself that you are ready now. Give it at least another month to see how you feel now that you have properly broken up.
Good luck :)... (read in full...)
I know he isn't worth it but I still can't stop being upset!
Q. I dont know what to do, i like this boy but i know that to him im nothing like a just another girl to him and that makes me feel so small and ugly and i hate it. When i see him out in town (nightclubs)it brings it all back and i think whats wrong ...
A. 5 July 2011: Just occupy yourself with things which make you happy and not think of him. Take up a new sport, get a job, hang out more with friends, play pc games, watch movies(which arent lovey dovey!) take these up with friends too and just have fun! These are ... (read in full...)
Overbearing Mother is coming between my 2 year relationship!
Q. My mom is having a problem with my boyfriend. We've been together for two years, and for the first couple of months of dating I was too afraid to introduce them because my mom doesn't really approve of me dating outside my race. Any who they m...
A. 5 July 2011: My mother is exactly the same and i have straight just told her to her face that if she is not happy with what happens in my life and who i am with, and decides to lecture me on it then she will push me away from her. You do what YOU want to do. N... (read in full...)
What can I do to get him off my mind?
Q. well I break up with my boyfriend like 2 days ago, I reazlie that I did not love him anymore so....we both did agree to break up and think it was for the best because it was not working out but I still always thinking of him and I do miss him and ...
A. 28 June 2011: If you know you dont love him and dont want to be with him then no contact and taking away things from your sight which will remind you of him. If you are not reminded then slowly you will stop missing him. You feel you miss him cause you are used ... (read in full...)
Did I break my hymen inserting a tampon?
Q. So the other day I was inserting a super and i think I might've broken my hymen. It was one of my last days and i was going to the beach so I put in a super. I used a cardboard one and had some difficulty putting it in. When i peed it kinda stung ...
A. 28 June 2011: If you have been using tampons for ages anyway your chances are your hymen is broken anyway and you didnt feel it. But as for the stinging and stuff. i think maybe you put it in at a funny angle or some way irregular than what you usually do and ... (read in full...)
I want to marry him but not his kids!
Q. I love my boyfriend hugely and we are engaged to be married. He has two children from a previous relationship ,5 and 4. Though the children are relatively well behaved and love me I find it really difficult to accept. I never want children (though i ...
A. 28 June 2011: You knew he had kids and accepted him then. You cannot ask him to choose between you and his kids. cause any good father would choose his flesh and blood. You need to see what you want in life. Obviously you dont want kids and his kids dont live ... (read in full...)
How to make a move ?
Q. So I'm nearly 16, and a few days ago, I got my first boyfriend! My bf has never had a girlfriend either (he's the same age as me) so we're both new to the whole relationship thing :P Okay, basically, we're both really shy. So far, we haven't ...
A. 28 June 2011: Holding hands is a much easier way to start. Just walking somewhere nice, like the park and has a happy vibe. If his hand is hanging down next to him, it usually will mean he wants to hold your hand and is waiting for a first move. Holding his hand... (read in full...)
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