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writes:Ok to start I have this problem I think I'm in love with my cousin or maybe it's just a lust. Im 28 and she's 22 I always been close with her since she was a teenager but this attraction didn't start until late last year. I don't know why it started but it just did I think about her 24/7 I even told her I was sexually attracted to her and she said she never really looked at me like that but the way I feel is ok. I want more but I don't know what to do/say if anyone could help with advice it would be nice.
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reader, Will1223 +, writes (25 August 2011):
Will1223 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks so far for the answers I understand where everyone's coming from I wish I had answers why I started feeling this way about her but I don't but I know I want to get it out my head.
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reader, Linton +, writes (25 August 2011):
Can't give you advice, but I can steer you to some information. Spend a few bucks if it matters to you and go to sciencemag.org and orderAn Association Between Kinship And Fertility of Human Couples. Agnar Helgason, Snaebjoern Palsson, Daniel F. Guobjartsson, Pordur Kristjansson and Karl Stefanson, SCIENCE vol 329 8 February 2008 page 813They looked at the outcome of cousin marriages, both children and grandchildren. What they found was that a degree of kinship produced more children. No kinship produced fewer than replacement. Check it out yourself. Notice that What they call for instance "third cousin or closer" would translate to second cousin once removed. Also they have their own way of calculating kinship. If you think wise, you could show the artilce to your cousin and chat about it.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (25 August 2011):
 I was in love with one of my cousins once but now that I look back I realise it was just that he was older than me and used to spend a lot of time patiently playing games with my sister and I. He is still my favourite cousin but I don't think of him like that now. At the end of the day this is a case of unrequited love and you need to make peace with the fact that she doesn't feel the same way about you and move on. There will be someone else for you who will share your feelings
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2011): Dude that's your cousin you might love her but if you did go anywhere with it your life will be fucked up and you don't want that so don't think about her go out find a nice girl that isn't related to you that you are sexually attracted to znd think about her instead
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reader, Y_v  +, writes (25 August 2011):
 she's your cousin. it will get frowned upon. don't waste your time if she doesn't even feel the same way. There is plenty more fish in the sea, fisherman :)
good luck chuck
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