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30-35,
*ockshredder
writes:Hi everyone. I am the same guy with the post Please read through it cause I want guidence really bad.http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-find-out-if-this-beautiful.htmlSince then I have moved a little further. I talk to her almost on every shift. Today she said 'hi'to me herself for the 1st time. She is really really shy and so am I. I think we have the same nature of shyness.I have gathered quite facts about her. I think she is really young cause her mom comes to pick her up. Secondly today we had a closing shift. I chased her car as well. I don't know what I was thinking. I intentionally stoped at the signal by her car by her seat so she could notice me. But I did not look at her and pretended to be texting someone on my cell phone.After my ex with whom I had a relation of 4 years, feelings almost died. But today I am falling again. I am getting out of control. I like her so much. What should I do? I have no skills no magic words so I don't know how to make her crazy for me. I know I should move slow but I cannot because I am thirsty for attention by her. I remained a simple hearted guy throughout my life and never learned anything except honesty and simplicity. I am however very witty and humorous.Tell me what can I do? The thing is that we work in retail and I barely get a chance to talk to her cause our store is really busy. We are working all the time.It is hardly a coincidence to meet up at break room as well. Lunch brake is just 30 minutes and rarely the same time as her.The only option is asking her out which scares me to death cause it might be too early. But I want to make her mine cause there are a lot pf players in my workplace who would steal her away. I seem to be left with no choice but to be be hasty. Help me please.I know where I would take her for lunch and I even know how to strike a conversation and keep her entertained if we go. I will make her laugh as well. But all I want is a chance and a skill to ask her in such a way that she does not say 'NO'. It is her 3rd week now so I think it might be ok.I have an idea. We get paycheques every 2 weeks. She must have got her 1st paycheque. How about I say:"Hey Kessidy, you got your 1st pay cheque?"She says "Yes"And I would say "Aren't you going to give me a treat then? I want ice cream!!!"What do you think? I think it is the most safest and casual way and she might enjoy this statement too. I have time till tuesday to make a move cause after that I will see her after a week.
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reader, Y_v  +, writes (25 August 2011):
 Umm that's kind of a cheesy pick up line you got there fella, and it makes you sound like you love yourself. First off, just be honest but don't show too much confidence. Be genuine but not trying-too-hard-to-be-funny.
the next time she's not busy why don't you just simply ask:
'hey (her name), do you fancy a drink some time? I know a great place we can go to'
and then see what she says. If she makes an excuse it could either mean she doesn't like you (sorry) or that she's not wanting to get into anything at the moment. However there is no harm in trying again cos i know that us girls do like persistent guys. If she rejects you second time, you should just get the message and leave it okay? you don't want to become her harrasser or even worse her stalker :/
If she says 'OK' then remember don't be TOO confident and be honest enough to be genuine and likeable. don't try to show off too much but show off enough that you are an independant alpha male ;)
Good luck buddy x
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