What do you think about during sex?
Q. I am curious to know what other people think about during sex. I asked a girlfriend this once and she laughed and then started to speak, but then declined to answer saying that it would ruin it for her if she told me. I am guessing my w...
A. 10 January 2012: There are many and varied things that I think about whilest having sex.... For example: I re-play a golf hole where I got a double-bogey..... or, a tennis point that lead to my opponent winning a set and match.... Sometimes, I even keep a 5-star ... (read in full...)
Should I cook for a girl on Valentine's if we're not officially Bf/Gf?
Q. Hey guys, Basically I know it's still quite a way from Valentine's day but i'm going to try and be organised for this :P I've been meeting up/dating(if you like) a girl for about 5 months now and we're basically going out together just without ...
A. 8 January 2012: Girls go ga-ga for a guy who can cook well..... You have not only by blessing, but my unbridled endorsement to do as you have suggested....
Good luck....
P.S. Make something gooey for her, for dessert. With any luck, she'll spill some on he... (read in full...)
I've got 3 guys in my life! I'm confused any advice?
Q. I am in this love triangle thing if you could call it that.... Well i like this guy for the past 2 yrs but he just started dating my best friend and then there is this other guy that i have kinda started liking but he just stopped talking to me and ...
A. 8 January 2012: Count your blessings... I'd give my eye-teeth to get just ONE girl to give me the time of day....... (read in full...)
Why did this woman back off after I ended the relationship with my girlfriend?
Q. Ok. So I recently got out of a nearly two year relationship. My girlfriend and I were long distance and weren't able to see eachother that often.When we were together we both had accounts on OkCupid looking for friends (but thats it). A few wee...
A. 7 January 2012: You ask: "Did ending my relationship scare her off?"
No... IF you said that you and your ex- were ".... on a break..." then she doesn't see that as a final break, AND she was probably hoping that you'd come to her "free and clear...."
Good lu... (read in full...)
Break up, get back together, but this time, for two months, he ignores me, why?
Q. Ive been broken up with my ex for 3 months now. We are always splitting up and getting back together. We are usually trading insults through texts. For 2 months he has ignored me and not replied to anything or even argued. I have sent insults only ...
A. 7 January 2012: Since you KNOW the "pattern" of your behaviour towards one-another, it is up to YOU to decide if you're content to continue this foolish "dance," OR if you'd prefer to have a REAL relationship - with someone else - wherein you don't have to endure ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend asks me to download porn since he doesn't have a computer!
Q. is it wrong for me getting upset that my "fiancee" watches to much porn even after i had told him that it bothers me that he do, he even watches it in front of me when we get in to a argument and even asks me to download his favorites for him ...
A. 7 January 2012: What's "wrong" about you is that you seem to think that this cad is your "boyfriend"..... I'm SURE you can do MUCH better........ (read in full...)
Why do I stay even after he's been guilty so many times?
Q. I am an attractive, young hearted, full of life woman. I've never had any problems with finding a man, but for the last 3 years, I have been in a very disfunctional relationship. We've both made huge mistakes that have damaged the relationship, ...
A. 5 January 2012: WHOA... Cerebus.... Did you HAVE to put this so succinctly??? Perhaps you could have couched your reply with a few platitudes about how this idjit was in love with the submitter..... and was CERTAIN to "change" as he's claimed..... Submitter: Re... (read in full...)
Sex is like...?
Q. I really want to have sex but don't have a boyfriend. Could someone please tell me what it feels like to have sex. Like comparisons. ...
A. 5 January 2012: It's a little like being struck by lightening.... First heat, and light, and a feeling that transgresses you from your head to your toes..... And then, it's over.....
Good luck...... (read in full...)
How can I be in love with 2 men?
Q. I have been married for two years. I left my ex ( the man that I had two children with) and soon after started dating my husband and shortly after that I got married. This whole time, my ex has been saying that he wants me back and I have thought ...
A. 5 January 2012: Being in love with two (or more) people is not as farfetched as you might think..... MANY days, whilest I am playing tennis or golf, I see hot ladies and fall DEEPLY in love with them. It takes only a few moments.....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
G/f says she hit her ex. Will she hit me?
Q. I just started to date this beautiful girl. She is everything I had ever wanted and acts just like a lady. However a couple of things are concerning me, 1. Is that her ex bfs things are still in her place, yet she says they broke up 3 months ...
A. 5 January 2012: Maybe/probably.... It's astounding, how many WOMEN hit MEN.... and it's no less despicable than a man hitting a woman....... Are you up to being her punching bag???? Good luck........ (read in full...)
Why is my supervisor behaving the way he is?
Q. So I've been working for this retail store and within the "structure" I, naturally, have a supervisor who's pretty helpful and friendly with everyone who works there. Nothing out of the norm. It isn't until last month when I started to REALL...
A. 5 January 2012: I think that what is happening is that you are playing some sort of game.... and he, periodically, gets sucked in to it (probably because you are HOT!!!)....and he then figures out that you are playing that game and cools down.... then.... you ... (read in full...)
Will my boyfriend ever grow up?
Q. I have been dating this guy for a year now. A little back story, we met at work. He was engaged and I was married and pregnant with my second child and there was no interest at the time. Long story short, his fiance cheated on him and my ex husband ...
A. 5 January 2012: Most guys never DO progress beyond the mentality of the second grade.... so - as Cerebus so adroitly notes - you AIN'T GONNA CHANGE this idiot..... Your choices are to ACCEPT HIM as he is... and expose yourself to a life of drama and anguish.... ... (read in full...)
Any ideas why he is suddenly losing erection during sex?
Q. Hey! my boyfriend and I have been together for a few months now, but I've known him forever since we've been friends since high school. Everything is great, we get along great and we both work to make things work. We're both very much in love. The ...
A. 5 January 2012: That used to happen to me when - during coitus - I might have a stray thought about my Mother-in-law. To avoid that, I posted pictures of hot babes on my headboard. It took a little explanation to the lucky girl ho was putting out for me but, ... (read in full...)
Please help me deal with my boyfriend having cancer!
Q. It is quite a complicated problem well it is to me but here goes...basically last month i met this lovely guy who i really like and he likes me too. We have gotten really close and i think i am falling in love with him. The only thing is we were ...
A. 5 January 2012: Like mYstiquek, I have experienced cancer/treatments with people close to me.... The most important thing to remember is that this is no longer a death sentence (as it was when I was your age)..... Today's treatments and protocals can arrest/e... (read in full...)
I've been offered a year job in Asia but after a horrible experience there, I'm not sure if I should go back!
Q. Nearly a decade ago when I was still in my late teens, I was travelling in Thailand and I had an incident that has left me reeling ever since. I had been drinking so no excuses there but a Thai girl approached and started talking to me. I can't re...
A. 5 January 2012: OP: Good luck in your new job and your new location. I hope you have a great time in this portion of the world.... AND that you get to see plenty and enjoy yourself throughout the duration..... ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is sexually confused
Q. MOD NOTE: 2 posts were combined... Hello I have been with this guy for 4 years and he has been discretely logging on to shemale websites I have confronted him about it when the proof is right in front of me and he gets offensive like he wants to...
A. 4 January 2012: So you shift to "denial" and believe that that's what your B/F is experiencing.... My point is, that you're making this submittal without much of a clear-cut question.... and - in order to do so (make the submittal) - you're claiming to know what's ... (read in full...)
What does a man mean when he insists that he wants to date a woman he can respect
Q. What does a man mean when he claims persistently that he wants to date a woman he can respect. Really stressing on it. I thought it was the vise versa- desiring to date a person who can respect you. ...
A. 3 January 2012: "A woman I (he) can respect....." is guy-talk for: .. a girl who isn't a slut....
Hope this helps........ (read in full...)
My wife's friend is marrying my wife's 1st boyfriend and we don't want to go to the wedding, should we?
Q. We need advice. My wife has this good girlfriend that she's known for a few years. We're married 4 years now and everything is great. This girlfriend hasn't been a big part of our life because of who she's dating (and now marrying). This girlfrien...
A. 3 January 2012: Is someone holding a gun to your head and FORCING you to go to the wedding against your will(s)?????
Last I checked, in the US of A, it's OK for a couple to decline an invitation to a wedding.....
Good luck....
P.S. Maybe there will be a g... (read in full...)
Strong feelings for a married woman. Could she feel the same way about me?
Q. I have strong feelings for a married woman. I am single with two grown children and have been divorced for ten years. I have recently ended a long term relationship. This woman and I work together. She is my client. She has two young children. ...
A. 3 January 2012: She's a CLIENT of your's??????? What are the protocols in your business, about consorting with CLIENTS??????
I suggest you absorb my (above) then see if you REALLY want to learn the details which you seek........ (read in full...)
We had a lot of sex but she has a B/f whom she's gone back to, and I'm scared to death of losing her
Q. I'm an 18 year old male/senior in high school. This girl I know came back home from college for winter break this last few weeks. She told me she had a boyfriend and that we couldn't let anything happen, regardless of the history we have as close ...
A. 3 January 2012: Let's assess the part of your submittal that has the REAL CRUX of your "question" in it..... To wit:
"I know that it's only been two days, but good god do I miss her. I didn't think in that short amount of time I could've fallen for a girl, bu... (read in full...)
How to tell your lover you want him as your boyfriend?
Q. Hello everybody, I have one question.I've been dating with someone for about a half year now. He's not my boyfriend, we see each other once a week or once on two weeks. We usually go to my or his house and we sleep together. Or we go just for a dr...
A. 3 January 2012: You seem to have the classic "Friends with benefits" mismatch; wherein YOU want a "relationship"... and your PARTNER (your "FWB") doesn't want a relationship.....
As long as YOU keep putting out for him, he has no motive to get in concert ... (read in full...)
I feel like I can't breathe in this unhealthy co-dependent relationship!
Q. im in a relationship with a really wonderful loving caring man. it will be 2 years in Feb. BUT i feel like a child in this relationship. I cant put my finger on what is bugging me but i just feel like not myself with him. I moved in with him in June ...
A. 3 January 2012: So you've written a protracted tome which has oh-so-many reasons for you to walk away from this man..... and, at the end, you spell out exactly what would be the best - and healthiest thing for you to do ("i think staying in a codependent unhealthy ... (read in full...)
My much older ex won't let me move on.
Q. my ex kicked me out of our home in may. he then used me once a week for 4 months until I told him I wanted more commitment - his response was that he was happy how things were going between us and didn't want anyone but me but if I want to rush ...
A. 3 January 2012: Young girls like you (age 21 or less) are a dream-come-true for an older (53) guy like him..... Why?
Because, as you've noted, he can use and abuse you if and when he wishes.... and YOU won't do anything about it....
Solution? Stay away from h... (read in full...)
How can I cuddle with him but be subtle while in the cinema?
Q. I need some advice. I've had boyfriends in the past but we never really went on dates. However i've met this boy who i really really like and we're going to the cinema together tonight, can anyone offer any advice about cuddling in the cinema? how ...
A. 3 January 2012: Just sit in the last (back) row and let it happen. Hope you are not wasting your money on a movie that you ACTUALLY WANT TO SEE.... because, in my experience, once the petting gets heavy, you aren't going to be seeing much more of the remainder of ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is sexually confused
Q. MOD NOTE: 2 posts were combined... Hello I have been with this guy for 4 years and he has been discretely logging on to shemale websites I have confronted him about it when the proof is right in front of me and he gets offensive like he wants to...
A. 3 January 2012: What makes you think that your boyfriend is "sexually confused?"... (read in full...)
My wife has take the joy out of my for too long! What do I do?
Q. I have been with my wife for more than 20 years and I am coming to a realisation that I have been duped. Sexually things are awful - at the beginning she made many promises that were never fulfulled, and in fact kept me waiting to have sex while she ...
A. 3 January 2012: Yes, I have a suggestion; Get away from your wife, divorce her and re-start a normal and reasonable life... by yourself, at first, ... and with a new partner, later, should you find one. THIS TIME, don't wait to learn if your prospective new ... (read in full...)
I feel guilty doing things my mother disapproves of, but should I?
Q. Hi everyone, Over the past year, I have begun the process of "growing up". I'm getting ready to graduate from college, moving out of my mom's house, I've been applying for jobs, etc. In a few days, I'm leaving for a New Year's vacation with my ...
A. 2 January 2012: Simple. Decide who is going to LIVE your life.... you, or your Mother. Whoever is the answer to that question is the name of the person who can (or cannot) make you feel guilty about the things that you do.....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
Sex turned into love with my boss 20 years older than me
Q. im 20 i started texting my boss after a few months of working for him, hes 20 years older than me and things started to get steamy he wanted things to move on but i wouldnt because of the age the whole work thing. but we kept.texting then i agreed ...
A. 2 January 2012: I have two suggestions:
1. Quit your job and get away from this conniving and advantage-taking man.....
2. Get on with your life... with this DOG in the dust of your rear-view mirror....
Good luck........ (read in full...)
In a relationship with man, but this needs to end! Please help because he refuses!
Q. I’m in a huge dilemma. I am in a relationship with a man I’m not supposed to. I want to end this. First off, let me say that throughout my whole life, I have been very insecure and I lacked a huge amount of confidence. I was very vulnerable to any m...
A. 2 January 2012: I "see" one brief paragraph with a REAL question within it...... then two protracted paragraphs with lots of words within them.... and with the obvious intent of validation of continuing in the ill-fated situation where you now find yourself....
... (read in full...)
Pregnant to my married ex lover!
Q. Hi I had been having an affair with a married man for nearly two years when it came to an abrupt end 6 weeks ago when his wife caught him on the phone to me. We have not spoken since however we did work at the same company and he got me dismissed...
A. 2 January 2012: This cad is obliged to help you pay the costs associated with raising a child to the age of 18.... All, and anything else, is optional....
Have you learned you lesson.... that hanging with - and putting out for - a married man is NOT WORTH IT... (read in full...)
I've been offered a year job in Asia but after a horrible experience there, I'm not sure if I should go back!
Q. Nearly a decade ago when I was still in my late teens, I was travelling in Thailand and I had an incident that has left me reeling ever since. I had been drinking so no excuses there but a Thai girl approached and started talking to me. I can't re...
A. 2 January 2012: Let my state what I think you have written: "About 10 years ago - whilest a teen - I acted like an a*s, in Thailand... and suffered what a*ses suffer when they indulge in liquor and/or drugs and get themselves in to the throes of a good hooker..... ... (read in full...)
Why can't my boyfriend just tell this girl he isn't interested?
Q. Hi, I need some help. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years. During this time there has been another girl in the background. They do have a past were they were once friends which led to a bit more but nothing serious came of it. Howe...
A. 2 January 2012: How much more evidence do you think you need to accumulate before you can (finally) draw the (obvious) conclusion that this guy you fancy is a DOG, and is not worth your time or attention?????
Once you figure out THAT, then you can dump his sorr... (read in full...)
B/f cheated on me while I was pregnant. How do I let him know how very much he hurt me?
Q. my boyfriend cheated on me while i was pregnant with our 3rd child with his friend sister. He paid her money for oral sex, he told me about it a week after it happened and it broke me up inside, he says he is sorry and has shown it but i need to let ...
A. 2 January 2012: Here's what you do.... you show this (my) submittal to him.... OK????
Dear sperm-donator: You got to knock up your girlfriend, then you chose to break her heart by being an as**ole by having a fling whilest she was carrying your baby.... IN orde... (read in full...)
Do all guys taste bitter?
Q. I had swallowed my guy friends orgasm the other day. That was my first experience of swallowing a guys cum. I was very shocked as it was tasting bitter. I had to eat an orange to feel comfortable. Do all guys have bitter orgasm and why ??...
A. 1 January 2012: Get him to dip his manhood in chocolate or "simple syrup" (or, maple syrup) just before you go down on him....and I promise, this submittal will make no sense to you in the future!!!!!
Good luck....... (read in full...)
I don't just want to date my b/f I want to marry him and we keep fighting about it!
Q. Hi, I'm in a pickle! I'm 27 and my boyfriend is 33. He is Egyptian Muslim and I am British Muslim revert (but I don't wear hijab or anything). We've been together for 2.5 years. The last year has been horrific!! His mum and sisters apparent...
A. 1 January 2012: HE doesn't want to marry you.... and his FAMILY prefers that he not marry you.....
WHAT MORE INFORMATION DO YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT THIS IS A STUPID SITUATION....AND YOU ARE WASTING YOUR TIME?????
Good luck....... (read in full...)
He hurt me and I want to get back at him and make him feel like an idiot!
Q. Say a guy mislead you and you ended up losing your virginity to him which was a big deal to you. You haven't experienced those sorts of feelings over a guy before a believe them to be love when in fact it was just confusion. You carry on seeing him ...
A. 1 January 2012: Chalk this up to a valuable experience, wherein you've learned that guys will do just about ANYTHING to get a girl to put out..... (There are some guys who will not "walk on broken glass or burning gas".... but they're the exception....)
Good ... (read in full...)
My ex is being pathetic by posting things about me on facebook!
Q. my ex has been posting things about me indirectly for a mth on facebook...when i asked him who is he referring to,he'd answered that it's towards his random friends who made him angry (actually i knew he was lying obviously)... here's sample ...
A. 1 January 2012: Take the high road. Forget about him and his FB page and get on with your life....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
I love her she only wants friends. What to do?
Q. So I meet this lady online in late Oct. 2011,we meet for diner I texted a few times after but no instrest. So i emailed her and said guess there was no chemistry nice to meet you good luck. She emailed back we can be friends with her number again. I ...
A. 1 January 2012: She's "telling" you - pretty clearly - that you don't have a chance for "love" with her..... Sooooo... decide if you want to be disappointed now, or later... and make your selection (of contact with her) on that basis...
Good luck....... (read in full...)
I stood by this girl when no one else would but as soon as things were fine she dropped me!
Q. Dear Cupid, Recently, a new girl moved to my school and has felt very homesick and has been kind of bullied by some of the people in our class. I was the only person who stuck with her through all of this, the only person who made her feel better ...
A. 1 January 2012: You chalk it up to a bad experience with an unappreciative young woman who doesn't really deserve your attentions...
Good luck...... (read in full...)
Even though we took all necessary precautions, I'm not feeling well, could I be pregnant?
Q. I recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend (21st Dec) ... it was an a amazing experience as we had waited for ages to show our love and commitment to each other. We of course took the necessary precautions before we made love to each other, w...
A. 1 January 2012: GEt your cute tushy down to the local pharmacy for an "EPT" (early pregnancy test) and follow the instructions on the wrapper.....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
My ex says he's scared to get back with me because he doesn't want me to hurt him again
Q. Hi i was wondering if anyone can please give me some advice or insight to my confusion. Basically me and my ex broke up two months ago, i had not been paying him enough attention and got really lazy about making an effort with him due to m...
A. 1 January 2012: There's an old expression.... "once bitten, twice shy"
It applies to dogs.... but can be extended to women if they behave like dogs.... (and, believe me, they're NOT immune to such behaviour!!!!!)
Good luck........ (read in full...)
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