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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes I feel that he keeps it a secret and both him looking at it and because its a woman with a dick wtf that's sickening to even think about no disrespect but that's not even cool
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (4 January 2012):
 Do you think he keeps it a secret because of your reaction to it? A man can watch shemale porn and not be in denial or confused. I know my bf watches it and I’ve seen some that I agree with him is pretty hot….
Is it the fact that he looks at porn or is it the SHEMALE part that bugs you so?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm just telling you what I see and if you were in my shoes and somebody that you truly loved and cared about was secretively doing something like this what would your reaction be be honest with your answers please and thank you....
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have told him to stop but he just gets very offended by what I say to him and denies it and yes I am very offended by it. That's why I state on here that he is confused and in complete denial and for me to be with him through thick and thin he should be able to trust me and tell me anything but I feel that he is hiding something from me in reguards to that and I am not judging him or anything but I feel that he is keeping some very very secretive from me. I show him the proof and he gets very furious with me and we get into a big physical argument and he has done this repetitively but me being as nice as I am I try to put it behind me but my my gut instincts are telling me differently that he is hiding something that could change everything and may be an uncomfortable outcome for both of us.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (4 January 2012):
 So you shift to "denial" and believe that that's what your B/F is experiencing.... My point is, that you're making this submittal without much of a clear-cut question.... and - in order to do so (make the submittal) - you're claiming to know what's going on inside your B/F's head...
As it happens, there is no reason for you to claim either confusion or denial.... The fact that he views shemale sites tells us only that he likes to view those sites....
That said: Is there some tangible evidence of the confusion that you claim? Do you and he have a full, rich and rewarding relationship, otherwise? Is there other evidence that his orientation is other than heterosexual?
What is the nature of the "confrontations" that you speak of? Do YOU find his viewing shemale sites offensive? IF "yes," then why not simply TELL HIM SO.... and ASK HIM not to do so when he is with you.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell for one he is always on these shemale websites and when I confront him he gets very offensive and we get into an argument knowing that I have the proof he still denies it that's why he is confused maybe I should have reworded that differently he is in denial
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (3 January 2012):
What makes you think that your boyfriend is "sexually confused?"
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