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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2012): i would not bother. he has gone and it looks like you lost him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2012): Because you made too much drama lol. Boys dont like too much drama - argues , it gets annoying. He got probably annoyed of you , was sick of your drama break ups so he lost the interest of you . I wouldn't try to get back to him. (ive gone trough this in 2 different realationships) Theres slight chance he might go back to you after long time , when you will be with someone else and he will realise what he lost . But why would you break up so often when you know it only does bad and the guys get annoyed by it lols
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2012): You sound like one of my ex`s. I hope you did`nt cry and remember forever what he said back to you and forgot what you`d said to him. They say men never grow up, but he must have done. I would`nt text him again, he`ll end up hating you even more, believe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2012): Why have you wasted 2 months, sending insults, only to be ignored. He has either changed his number (I would have) or changed his life.
Actions speak louder than words and this man has had enough.
Go find a new man and a happy healthy relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2012): he isnt as much into arguing and insults as you are, so he's called it quits. if he has ignored you for a while then its time you got the message.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2012): Yes he has probably got another woman. He wont have told you because he knows you will send even more childish texts to him. Has it not occured to you that it may have driven him even further away from you? He probably see's you as a dick head.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2012): Sounds like he has gotten fed up of the same routine why keep splitting up and getting back together if you truely loved each other you wouldn't keep splitting up all the time if I were in your situation I would forget all about him and move on because its pretty obvious he has why put yourseelf through it any longer let it go
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2012): It could be that he is sick to death of exchanging insults and is happier out of the relationship than in it. I always believed insults would drive someone further away not closer. Not everyone enjoys toxic relationships, so he just may have met someone else.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (7 January 2012):
 Since you KNOW the "pattern" of your behaviour towards one-another, it is up to YOU to decide if you're content to continue this foolish "dance," OR if you'd prefer to have a REAL relationship - with someone else - wherein you don't have to endure the B/S that you describe, herein...
Good luck...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2012): he could have come to the realization that there is nothing left of the relationship thats worth arguing about. i dont think he wants to get back with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2012): I'd say he has grown up and grown tired of the immature and emotional abusive ways. Good for him.
I say you do likewise and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2012): First of all, you shouldn't have insulted him even if he did. U should have ignored him but now u did just forget about him cuz is seems he has. DNT MAKE YOUR BIGGEST MISTAKE BY CONTACTING OR TEXTING HIM. Just move on with your life and surely u'll find someone worthy.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (7 January 2012):
 Sounds like your boyfriend has had enough of fighting and moved on.
Fighting is not healthy for neither of you in a way its good he's stopped the bickering. He has finished fighting he's had enough of it.
If you want to get back together with him why don't you call him or drop him a message explaining the reason for your argumentative behavior and why is he ignoring you?
These kind of argumentative behaviors always puts people off.
Goodluck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2012): Maybe he is absolutely pissed off with it all and has decided to ignore you so you'll go away.
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reader, thinkb4  +, writes (7 January 2012):
It looks like he has had enough. I see your point about trying to get a reaction, but because he has not reacted shows he he does not wish to be in a toxic relationship any longer. Whether or not he`s met someone is not important.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2012): There is nothing left for him to fight for. He very much wants out of it. You need to move on regardless.
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reader, TheChupaChump +, writes (7 January 2012):
 I think it is time for you two to go your seperate ways. What is love with so much hate? Call him to meet him and sort it out face to face. Don't get back together. There's 7 billion + people in the world, I'm sure you WILL find someone who is worth your loving. Good Luck :)
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