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writes:What does a man mean when he claims persistently that he wants to date a woman he can respect. Really stressing on it. I thought it was the vise versa- desiring to date a person who can respect you. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2012): He really wants a woman he can take advantage of, just trying to throw you off the scent.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2012): It means that he wants a woman who doesn't take him for a fool, or sleep arond, use him, cheat on him, find 100 faults with him....hurt him.
Men can have issues with women too and It cause us to lose respect for them. If they don't hurt us, we'll respect them because they're worthy of that.
I'm going to assume he's a 'nice guy' and they get their share of heart for a number of reasons. Maybe he lost that respect and wants to get it back.
Best of luck.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (3 January 2012):
 "A woman I (he) can respect....." is guy-talk for: .. a girl who isn't a slut....
Hope this helps.....
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (3 January 2012):
 Sounds like he has a list of attributes he expects in a mate. Why not simply ask him. "I appreciate you feeling so strongly about whom you date. Would you please explain what attributes you consider to be respect-worthy and which attributes you find to be a problem?"
Maybe he means he wants a woman who earns her own money, or maybe he means he wants someone who has never so much as held another man's hand, maybe he wants a woman who is impeccably dressed at all times, who knows? You aren't a mind-reader, and it's a perfectly reasonable question to ask, just ask it with calm curiosity.
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