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Sex turned into love with my boss 20 years older than me

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Question - (2 January 2012) 6 Answers - (Newest, 3 January 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

im 20 i started texting my boss after a few months of working for him, hes 20 years older than me and things started to get steamy he wanted things to move on but i wouldnt because of the age the whole work thing. but we kept.texting then i agreed to just have sex with him no feelings involved.! six months later after some amazing sex. he says im the best hes had im falling in love with him i didnt want to. i carnt begin to imagine what.people would with if they knew. he is.divorced with two kids, says he rarely has time for me it would never work. so he blows cold with me all the time saying he doesnt want to fall for me. what am i susposd to do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2012):

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bearN yes this guy is also a workaholic. he tells me it would be so easy to fall for me thats why he'l throw his guard up when he starts getting more feelings for me he try his hardest to not show it. what the hell.! any way thank you for all your advice after i wrote this last night i havnt spoke to him at all. he text my hours thru thats it. so hopefully i can be able to keep this up. clearly his loss

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2012):

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bearN yes this guy is also a workaholic. he tells me it would be so easy to fall for me thats why he'l throw his guard up when he starts getting more feelings for me he try his hardest to not show it. what the hell.! any way thank you for all your advice after i wrote this last night i havnt spoke to him at all. he text my hours thru thats it. so hopefully i can be able to keep this up. clearly his loss

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (2 January 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntI have two suggestions:

1. Quit your job and get away from this conniving and advantage-taking man.....

2. Get on with your life... with this DOG in the dust of your rear-view mirror....

Good luck.....

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (2 January 2012):

Honeypie agony auntEnd the relationship or whatever it is. He isn't going to want anything but sex from you. So, stop the texting, slow sleeping with him. Remove yourself as much as you can from him.

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A female reader, bearN India +, writes (2 January 2012):

bearN agony auntI was in the same situation. All I can say is he has made his choice. And the guy whom i have been with was a workaholic. Even he wouldn't give me time and support. I am sorry, the only thing which could make you happy and him is by having sex. That's it!!! Hope you understand sooner and proceed to look out for a guy who will love and support you.

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A female reader, Starlights United Kingdom +, writes (2 January 2012):

Starlights agony auntIf he is open and telling you he does not have time or want to fall for you... he's given you his answer...

Im sorry... IT WILL NOT WORK. He has made his choice.

It's time to move on and find someone more suitable for you who has the qualities that your wanting.

Its difficult because you're falling for him. Surround yourself with those who love you at this time.

Do also realise its his loss at losing this relationship not yours.

Try avoid getting close to him again so you avoid being sucked in to that vicious circle.

Goodluck!

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