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writes:My friend Patricia says that this married man loves her, she sees him regularly, always flirts and laughs at his jokes, he's 10 years her senior, she says he loves it and she thinks he's mad about her, she laughs about it but she's always degrading him behind his back. should i tell the poor man, she's just trying to take his job? as this is her objective as she said herself?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008): she's using him to learn all she can about the profession, and she says his job is hers.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (30 April 2008):
 Hi,
I think we arent getting the whole picture here. Yes he may be swooning over this girl and it wouldnt be the first time a man thought with his penis. But equally likely is he is playing her himself.
So as far as I'm concerned they deserve each other and you shouldnt say a thing because at the end of the day he is a married man flirting around in the office and she is a player trying to take advantage of him - they sound like the perfect match to me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008): Why is she flirting if she's trying to TAKE his job. Make more sense if she wanted him to GIVE her a job.
Be a good idea to just lay low. Guys in their mid-30's aren't anything like guys 10 years prior. Married men understand the game younger women play & they don't think with just their balls. Even though Patricia would like to think he's puddy in her hands, its more likely that this guy is just responding to her flirting.
Also consider why Patricia is insulting him as soon as she's around other people. She probably really does like this man. She just doesn't want others to think she does... hence she goes out of her way to put him down. Also she probably doesn't want to be seen as a potential home-wrecker
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