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writes:I want to give my husband amazing blow jobs, however, I have a very small mouth (and TMJ on top of that) and my husband has a big cock, so you see my dilemma here! Aside from that I have a shy husband (he's too shy to cum in my mouth, he's afraid I won't like it though I've tasted his cum and I am totally fine with it), but he does like blowjobs naturally, its only that I can't take him in very deep and keeping my mouth open too long with my jaw is painful (I hate this b/c I really really like doing it). So I was wondering if you guys could give me some detailed advice on how to stimulate the penis and balls using my tongue, lips, hands or what not that can still drive him wild. He won't try anal play and he runs on the rather extreme side of sensitive I mean his penis and nuts and such, very sensitive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008): u dont have to pleas a man by giving a blow-job. u could gently lick his testicles and take then one at a time into your mouth. move your tongue languidly around each one. this is very erotic for him and very few women will delighted him this way (i have he said he loved it so that gives it a big plus)hope u try this its very pleasing for your man!!!!
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reader, BigSis  +, writes (1 May 2008):
 Am I right in saying it's really hot in here or is it just me??
I'm in serious need of finding a boyfriend!!
: )
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (1 May 2008):
 Glad our suggestions helped!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): Okay guys I did go and try this out, I actually told him I posted a question about it he thought it was funny (I could tell he was flattered too) but then shortly after he initiated sex lol. I spent more time with his balls (gently) and licking the underside and such as has been suggested I think he really enjoyed it, really we've only use bj for foreplay so we did have sex after a bit and boy could I tell he was wound up lol Didn't take him long at all to get off. I am hoping to carry him to completion someday at a blow job but he worries I am not getting off too. So keep the suggestions coming.Also he's uncut if you know of ways to incorporate foreskin.
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reader, lexilou +, writes (30 April 2008):
 All blokes are different my previous partner was enormous and I could give him a bj easily in minutes as he liked stimulation at the tip. I was with my ex hubbie 17 years and never successfully completed a bj - he was quite small. Hubbie number 2 is also well endowed but likes stimulation further down the shaft and finds if i just suck the tip we get nowhere and if I do what he likes I gag within minutes. So get your hubbie to shave his balls and mix licking and sucking them gently and also up his shaft, very gently stroke them too while you suck his penis. My hubbie likes me to make lazy circles round his balls with a really gentle touch it drives him wild, I also stimulate his penis and balls by hand as I suck the bit that doesnt make me gag!! I alternate between these for ages and it really prolongs the bj - handy for times when us ladies just want to pleasure the guys
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reader, oldfool +, writes (30 April 2008):
I agree with what's been said below.
My favourite (as I've mentioned elsewhere) is for the girl to go gently up and down the underside of the penis with her mouth, like she's playing the flute. The underside is the sensitive side. Then suddenly reach the top and take the whole penis in your mouth, or as much of it as you can. It comes as a very pleasant surprise.
Others are:
Use hands and mouth at the same time. The feeling of hands around the penis is great, as long as the head is in your mouth!
Cup his testicles in one hand, and apply gentle pressure. It will definitely add to the feeling.
Press down on the abdomen around where his pubic hair is. That will also feel nice and push him towards coming.
Good luck!
PS: Let us know how it works out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008): Hand going up and down around his shaft, mouth only needed around the head of the penis. When your mouth gets a bit tired, just let the hand motion continue further up and let the mouth rest for a bit. Some guys like to have their balls licked too but you should make sure this is okay first since he says hes sensitive. don't worry so much about deepthroating, the combo of hands and mouth feel very much the same. Long slow licks up and down the shaft are good too. hope he appreciates you, lucky man
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2008): go from side on, i.e. him lying on his back, you kneeling at his side...paying attention to the "under-surface" only with a wet mouth/tongue i.e. you can keep your mouth open at varying angles, that feels great too.
also can maintain oral contact throughout without stressing your husband as you need not get the come in yr mouth.
get what I am describing
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reader, Collaroy +, writes (30 April 2008):
 Hi,
when my partner gives me a blowjob she concentrates on the head anyway, so very little goes in her mouth. the really sensitive part is between the shaft and the knob ( so keep the teeth away! ) but if you just concentrate by licking and kissing his knob then you should be fine - also vary this will so massaging of the knob using lube - that works great .
I think my wife would love to have the same problems as you! :)
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