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Archived questions from: July, 2011 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Is there something wrong with me? I feel as if I have been left behind!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (?) - Heya, I'm actually a little embarressed to put this up on here but... I'm 18 years old, I am a female, but I am still a virgin :/ I also havent been in a relationship with a guy before, which is actually my bigger problem... I only had my f...

Would guys be turned off by a 24 year old virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4827 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - This may seem like a weird question, but I've got to ask. My sister is 24 and still a virgin. Would you guys be turned off by that? First some background info: My sister and I are very close and currently share an apartment. It's a handy ...

How do I tell my b/f that I'm not a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (F) - How am i going to tell my boyfriend that iam not a virgin anymore?...

I'm a 21 year old male virgin and I feel so pressured to lose it.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

31 July 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm 21 soon to be 22 and I'm still a virgin. For the most part I'm OK with it 90% of the time but the other 10% is hard to deal with. Growing up I was usually the last of the bunch to do certain things (driving, dating, etc.) and I still am and ...

Guys, would you be put off by a 21 year old virgin?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4861 days ago

29 July 2011 (F) - hi there! im 21 years old. i'm a university student. basically i am still a virgin and never had a boyfriend. its not that i don't get asked out. im a normal girl, love going out and having a good time. but i guess i just haven't met a guy i...

Any advice for my situation? Never had a girlfriend and need some new social outlets.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4864 days ago

28 July 2011 (M) - I've been going through a bit of a rough spot, maybe some of you will have some words of wisdom. I'll try to keep this as concise as possible. I've been having a really hard time meeting girls since graduating from high school. I'm a fairly qui...

I'm a VIRGIN and I don't deny it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4866 days ago

27 July 2011 (F) - Hello there! Ok I seem to be so confused! Im in highschool and in the words of other people im ''a trip, funny, popular, cute, pretty, fine ,curvy, athletic, confident, independent, smart, loyal'' i was even nominated most outgoing and most ...

Horny guy is testing my sexual willpower!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - Dear cupid, he is 30 years old and I am 28 years old. We met for a conference, flirted for a six weeks and we are going different paths because the conference ends in a fortnight. He is cute and turns me on with his stares. Problem is he is very ...

How do I make it clear that I want him to take my virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - I have the most lovely boyfriend and we have been dating for a while now. We can get a bit frisky when we are alone and I know that we work together. The thing is that I would like to move it to the next level and would like to do "the deed". The ...

Should I just have sex with him since I may never see him again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

26 July 2011 (F) - He is 29 and I am 30. I fell in love with him for the past one month and I thought he was too, but now I am not sure if he feels love or lust for me.He wanted animalistic sex(no kiss, doggy style) and I refused. I deliberately but not openly avoided ...

Ready to loose my Virginity, so whats holding me back ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4867 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - Physically and emotionally, I'm certain I'm ready to lose my virginity. I'm in a relationship (albeit a long-distance one) with a man whom I care about very deeply indeed, and I know the love and trust I feel for him is reciprocated. Even if we ...

He's a virgin and I'm not

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

25 July 2011 (F) - Hello all! Hope you are doing well. Got a bit of a connundrum to deal with today and any help is appreciated. What does one do when they are more sexually experienced than their partner? My boyfriend is a virgin. I am not. We haven't had a se...

Is it normal not to want sex? And to prefer a relationship without it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4862 days ago

21 July 2011 (M) - To be short and blunt, sex doesn't interest me at all. I thought it did but it was just me being hung up on being a virgin. Once I got past this barrier, sex just doesn't appeal to me. Is this normal and is there any way to have a relationship ...

Why am I still single? Feeling so hopeless and lonely.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

21 July 2011 (M) - Guys can you please tell me why is this happening, I mean its not like I'm ugly or anything and I even have good future ahead of and most I'm importantly I know what I want in my life. But why am I still single? why can't the normal thing of having ...

I'm 18 and still a virgin

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

21 July 2011 (M) - Am 18 high school senior and still a virgin. My friends aren't virgins though, it really bothers me that am a virgin not because my friends aren't but because I wanna experience what sex is like. I dont know if its oyt of curiosity or blueballs. Coz ...

Virginity--when do most lose it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4856 days ago

21 July 2011 (F) - Hello :) well this subject is really kinda hard to explain but i will do it my best. Well first of all im 14 years old i don't go to school anymore because alot of stuff happened some months ago i wont explain ...

Is it really a big deal if I have never been in a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - Why do women make its such a big deal, if you've never been in a relationship? (girls is it a red flag or what? and how is it a red flag, i mean if somebody hasnt been through a intimate relationship, does that make it a no go?) ive honestly been...

We want to have sex but she is too dry! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4870 days ago

19 July 2011 (M) - I love my girl soo much which is tha same case with her.. Bt the problem is she is a "virgin".. Every time we try having sex she gets dry and it becomes difficult for me.. Help help? Or should i use a condom for lubrication??...

I've got myself into a state over a guy once again! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4871 days ago

18 July 2011 (?) - Hi, I have got myself into a bit of a state over a guy once again. My long story cut short goes like this... Christmas 2010 a guy from college started talking to me out of the blue, i went along with it, we got along well, we only ever spoke du...

Some questions on sex in the shower and why can't I orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - Hiya All, I have some questions on sex. 1) I've heard some women physically can't orgasm. Is there any way to know if you can't climax? I've been sexually active with my boyfriend for 8months now and he knows my body and what i like better than...

I feel like my ex only wants me for sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

18 July 2011 (F) - What does it mean when your ex boyfriend say this to you , does he want to keep you in his life or just use you for sex? You know I took the virginity so there's a lot of girls that don't last with the guys that took the virginity so keep me around. ...

We cannot complete sex. Is it my boyfriend or me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

17 July 2011 (F) - I'm in my early 30's and still a virgin. I was abused when I was 11 yrs old. I was physiically abused but my attacker did not succeed in raping me.. In other words, I was not penetrated. Since then, I developed a fear of men. During my teens, I was ...

After losing my virginity will it be really difficult to stop having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

17 July 2011 (F) - Is it true that once you start having sex it becomes really difficult to stop? I know my current boyfriend is the man I want to lose my virginity to (I wouldn't be his first), but we're an LDR so only get to meet up every 2-3 months. If we go ...

I am still madly in love with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

17 July 2011 (F) - I'm only sixteen, but when I was growing up as a child, I was always around my older brother (who is now 20) and his friends. I grew up with one of his bestfriends, Josh (who is now 19). Me and my brother had been living at my grandparents, and ...

Should I go for sex with my virgin girlfriend if I am not able to marry her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

16 July 2011 (M) - Hello ! Me and my Girlfriend is going to meet on this 18th July 2011.. I am planing to have sex and give her a little bit hint about it.. She was excited and expecting me for a great make out..But The problem is She is virgin and I am really feeling ...

I'm a virgin and still trying to hold onto my dreams!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

16 July 2011 (M) - Hi I'm a 27 year old male and I'm still a virgin.The thing that bothers me the most isn't the lack of sex but the fact I still haven't felt what is like to love and be loved.To have a person that really cares about me and me feeling the same for ...

Am I still a virgin? It didnt hurt or bleed!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

15 July 2011 (F) - This is very confusing and sometimes i think am still a virgin. i had sex with my first boyfriend and i did not bleed nor did it hurt. is this normal? i told my friends and they said am either abnormal or my boyfriend's dick was too small or wea...

I'm 24 and still a virgin, is this normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4877 days ago

14 July 2011 (M) - Hi cupid, I'm a "straight" guy age 24 and im still virgin.. is it normal? ...

I told him I wanted to wait but he keeps trying it on! What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - Im aged 13-15, and i've been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 months,i'm still a virgin and i told my boyfriend i wanted to wait! but recently we were kissing and stuff and i had a short skirt on and he tried it on? Immediately i got up and s...

After I told him I was a virgin he doesn't talk to me anymore! What is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

14 July 2011 (F) - I met this guy at a basketball court he seemed nice meaning as he introduce himself to my mom,so any ways we decided to kik it the next day with his friends in the night on a hill,it seemed to go okay and wed write eachother on facebook but after he ...

I'm really worried I won't enjoy sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4879 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - I'm in love with a guy. I've had many crushes before but I've never felt as much in love as I'm with this guy. I have never had sex because I want to stay virgin until marriage. Before I didn't quite think about sex and I felt I will never like it ...

I didn't tell my boyfriend that it hurt when he fingered me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4878 days ago

12 July 2011 (F) - My boyfriend just recently fingered me, and it hurt. I have never had sex or anything before that was the first time, i didnt want to tell him it hurt me because it might have lowered his confidence and made him feel bad. Is it normal to hurt the ...

How can I get the images of what I did out of my head?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4881 days ago

11 July 2011 (F) - So the first time I met this guy I though he was cute an it turned to liking him alot. Wr spent so much time at work and outside of work together. The first time we kissed I finishined crying because I dont do that with anyone, he said he was going ...

I need help, I really want a relationship with him, gave him my virginity but he's back with his girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - ok this is really long but i need advice. so i have known this guy since i was in the 4th grade and he has like me since then but ive never shown him any attention. so in 11th grade he got a new look and i was really attracted to him so we started ...

Does sex with a girl (if you're a girl) count as losing your virginity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - When you ask people what losing your virginity means they usually say intercourse.. so what does this mean for lesbians? Like do lesbians not lose their virginity? And does it mean bisexuals lose it twice?...

My gf's vagina seems "loose"; does this mean she is not a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

10 July 2011 (M) - I have a girlfriend who i love very much..she told me that she was a virgin (she never lie to me + i've known her long ago) but last time when i fingered her, my finger was loose as if she had had sex several times and feels no pain...could it be ...

I am 24 and planning to lose my virginity to a prostitute. Any tips for a first-timer?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

10 July 2011 (M) - Well I'm 24 and still a virgin and really tired of waiting. So I'm looking into losing my virginity to a prostitute in a few weeks. It's legal where I live and weekly STD testing are mandatory for prostitutes. I've given up on finding a girlfr...

Is this pain normal? I am turned on, so it's not dryness!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

10 July 2011 (F) - im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m I lost my virginity to my boyfriend 2 and a half weeks ago, it hurt a lot at first but the pain then subsided. I was very very tight, i was extremely wet and everything, and my boyfriend was gentle with me. ...

Will my next sexual encounter be painful??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4883 days ago

9 July 2011 (F) - ok i had sex too year ago i have only been with one "ex" partner but i have a new partner now whice i love so much and im planning of haveing sex very soon but i am a bit scared will it be sore or will i bleed again will my vigina be like a virgin ...

I want to look experienced even though I'm not, help !!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

8 July 2011 (F) - Hey so I've got a difficult situation to deal with. I really like a guy, and he really wants to have sex. I'm a virgin, but he thinks I'm not. I think I'm comfortable with vaginal sex, but he has somewhat of an obsession with getting head. I've ...

Will he ever stop cheating on his GF and be more than a FWB to me? He is my first lover

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

8 July 2011 (F) - So I dated this guy and we broke up on our month Anniversary and a month later we began to have sex. About every month we meet up once or twice to have sex. Most likely he is just using me because I am an easy target for him. He knows he's my firs...

He's around 23 and I'm 18. He keeps touching me. Does he like me? Or is he trying to take advantage of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

8 July 2011 (F) - So, I have a huge issue. I kinda liked this guy, and I met up with him today for the first time in about 2 months. We hung out in this old shopping center (fun place to hang out) and then we headed out to a park closer to his house. I will admit th...

Is it because I'm a virgin?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4884 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - Hey, so im 16 and im dating my brothers friend who is 23. We are very close and have no secrets. He wants to marry me and have me live with him once I turn 18. He has this issue down south and he gets an extremely unbearable pain if he doesnt have ...

Is this pain from trying to get a finger in normal?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

7 July 2011 (F) - right i'm 19 and still a virgin i have never been fingured ... i have been with this boy for almost a year now and i want to have sex with him so badly but i have tried to fingure my self but carnt as it gives me BAD pain it makes me feel like i ...

My partner is a virgin....what if I try and he doesn't want to do it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

6 July 2011 (F) - So i've been dating this guy for a couple of months. I am 23 and he is 21. But he's a virgin. I knew it even before we started dating, but i didn't think it was important. I'm not a very sexual person but still, eventually i'm gonna want to do it...

I'm a virgin and I don't want to send mix sex signals to my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - This guy and I have had feelings for eachother for four months now, and we're very very attracted to eachother. Were both 18.. and I was wondering if its all moving too fast and how I should handle the situation. I was at his house last night and we ...

Condom questions....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

5 July 2011 (M) - hi this is a slightly embarrassing question but I would like to know the answer. I'm a virgin and my girlfriend has been wanting to do it for some time and so do I but something ocurred to me, that I'm a little worried about. Say you are having sex ...

He told me that sometimes he hates that I wasn't a virgin!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

5 July 2011 (F) - I have a problem, i had lost my virginity a few years ago which was the biggest mistake of my life well i hadnt let my self date since then nine months ago i met my current bf i had told him everything that i had been through since he was still a ...

With no money.....how will I be able to change things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

4 July 2011 (F) - This might a little long and at some point nonsensical... This is the first time i ever write what's really on my mind and it's also the first time i express myself honestly and with no strings attached. I should mention however that i am not a US...

Should I lose my virginity if I am ready and if it is starting to make me insecure?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4885 days ago

2 July 2011 (M) - I am not asking this question about losing my virginity for the sake of being ''cool'' and ''popular'' becuase I am honestly an older guy who is far beyond that mindset. I am only considering losing my virginity for my own sanity and not for ...