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anonymous
writes: ok i had sex too year ago i have only been with one "ex" partner but i have a new partner now whice i love so much and im planning of haveing sex very soon but i am a bit scared will it be sore or will i bleed again will my vigina be like a virgin again ?? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, chigirl +, writes (9 July 2011):
Your vagina might feel tight at the first go, but nowhere the same as when you were a virgin. You wont bleed again (unless he's being extremely rough with you, which shouldn't happen).
I assume you've had sex more than once. It'll be just like when you used to have sex, and not at all like when you lost your virginity.
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reader, Cupid_or_Stupid +, writes (9 July 2011):
You won't be 'virgin' again but it might be a little painful. Maybe not so much as your first time however.
In regards to bleeding. It's unlikely you will bleed again although sometimes the hymen can reheal. As far as I'm aware this is quite rare though and is usually found in younger women/girls. Even if this was the case it may not hurt or bleed as much the second time around as it has already be damaged and would be weaker.
If you're in any doubt about it hurting at all then there's no harm in taking it nice and slow and gentle.
I'm sure you'll be fine. Good luck :) x
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (9 July 2011):
You shouldn't bleed again. Make sure you have lots of KY Jelly or something like that (NOT vaseline) on hand because if you are really wet it wont hurt as much if at all.
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