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anonymous
writes:This is very confusing and sometimes i think am still a virgin.i had sex with my first boyfriend and i did not bleed nor did it hurt. is this normal?i told my friends and they said am either abnormal or my boyfriend's dick was too small or weak to break it and i might be a virgin.what confuses me is that we had sex several times and nothing happened,i didnt bleed,it didnt hurt,it was like i was having sex before yet i wasn't.Am i stil a virgin or i was not born a virgin? lolplease help
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2011): i thought virginity was all about breaking the hymen,hurting and bleeding but i guess i was wrong.
i thought i was abnormal cause friends say its a must to bleed.
Thank God am not abnormal
Thank you for your answers
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2011): I didn't bleed. It hurt but I didn't bleed. I didn't consider myself a virgin anymore.
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reader, Dlawube  +, writes (15 July 2011):
 Dear, may be your hymen is already broken with the kind of things u do (exercise and others) now that your virginal has been penetrated by a penis, you are not a vigin any more and that is the truth.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (15 July 2011):
 Not everyone feels pain or bleeds on their first time. You could also have accidentally broken your hymen on a number of things as insignificant as horseback riding or inserting a tampon. You're lucky!
Otherwise, the act of losing your virginity has nothing to do with bleeding or hymen breaking. If a man has inserted his penis inside your vagina, then you are no longer a virgin. To add to that, you are mentally no longer a virgin either because you have willingly given up your body for sexual intercourse.
So no, you are not a virgin. There is absolutely no question whatsoever. You were born a virgin. You were a virgin until the first time a man put his penis inside you.
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (15 July 2011):
 Hello,
As So Very Confused says you are no longer a virgin. I did bleed, but we are all different you know. I suppose, some do and some don't. But in any case, you are no longer a virgin.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (15 July 2011):
 i never bled when i lost my virginity and it never hurt either. so yeah normal
and if you have had a penis in your vagina at all you are no longer a virgin...
you were a virgin till your boyfriend put his penis in your vagina. then you were no longer a virgin.
blood and pain are NOT required thankfully for losing your virginity...
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