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writes: Am 18 high school senior and still a virgin. My friends aren't virgins though, it really bothers me that am a virgin not because my friends aren't but because I wanna experience what sex is like. I dont know if its oyt of curiosity or blueballs. Coz am single for now. Any advices out there.
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (21 July 2011):
Nothing wrong with being a virgin. Absolutely nothing wrong. Of course, you want to be having sex, which is completely normal. I would say just wait until you find the right girl who can accept that you are a virgin even if she isn't one, one who you care about a great deal. Don't listen to your friends if they say things like 'You need to just get it over with'. That's just complete bullsh*t. I'm a female who wishes she would have waited longer. I know males in the same position. Don't just give it away.Hope this helps!
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reader, juniexbaby +, writes (21 July 2011):
Don't just do it with any girl that is willing, wait until you find someone that you know you want to give your virginity to. It's special and should be shared with someone just as special.
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (21 July 2011):
It doesn't matter if you're a virgin or not. You're only 18 so you have plenty of time. And most people do lie about that, but if they aren't, then don't worry. Your time will come.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2011): Hey you really need to stop comparing yourself to your friends! You are an individual and sex is an important thing. Trust me from my own experience i lost it too a TWA*T and regret it so much, so you need to wait for the right person to come along so you ensure you wont' regret it. Its a special thing and although you may want to know what it is like, but you need to wait and see who comes along.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2011): Don't worry mate, I am too.
Trust me, heaps of people your age are and are just lying about it. TRUST ME, this really isn't as bad as you think!
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