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writes:Dear cupid, he is 30 years old and I am 28 years old. We met for a conference, flirted for a six weeks and we are going different paths because the conference ends in a fortnight. He is cute and turns me on with his stares. Problem is he is very horny and has made me as well. I am a virgin and I don't want to indulge in sex just for pleasure with a total stranger who doesn't want a relationship but he's driving me nuts with his horns. What can I do..take a chance?
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (27 July 2011):
 If you don't want anymore than just sex, then take a chance.
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reader, Margot56 +, writes (27 July 2011):
 You said, "I don't want to indulge in sex just for pleasure with a total stranger who doesn't want a relationship"
But... you do seem to want that and that's what is soo careless, of you. When it comes to one-night stands, men and women are poles apart. Guys just want a quick night of hot sex while most gals go to bed with the false impression of flattery and a craving for feeling desirable.
This whole one night stand thing is great for most men and the pits for most women. Women hook up because they felt 'flattered' by the guy's proposition. But the morning after, the consequences are devastating.
Be smart..look after yourself here. He's not thinking of you..he just wants some cheap thrills for the night..and you could end paying the price. Because a whack of emotional and physical problems can derive from this behavior (pregnancy, stds) Perhaps some self-control on your part is needed here.And maybe you can tell him to go take a long cold shower and to ask him back off.
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (27 July 2011):
 Feel like being used for your first time by a relatively random stranger?
Or would you rather develop a relationship with someone who respects you beyond sex?
You are a grown up dear. The choice is yours. Make a smart one.
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (26 July 2011):
 Save yourself for someone who's important and you care about. Don't let him make you a one-night stand. And if you can't do that, then at least don't have sex with someone you're likely to never see again.
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