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writes:Why do women make its such a big deal, if you've never been in a relationship?(girls is it a red flag or what? and how is it a red flag, i mean if somebody hasnt been through a intimate relationship, does that make it a no go?)ive honestly been in one short relationship, it just didnt have the intimate part in it, ie (sex etc)I have lied to a couple of girls, about sex and stuff, because they are like way more experienced lol..... but im 26 and still a virgin.... not really a big deal to me, but to the girls im just friends with, it seems like some major implication.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2011): In this situation I applaud you for standing strong and being a virgin theses days eveyone that have been in a lot of other relationship seem to always worry about what they have been through with the last person and unfortunately sometimes they take it out on a new person And no it's not a big deal it's a wonderful change
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reader, lm9hi  +, writes (20 July 2011):
 Personally I would prefere if my partner didnt have any previous relationships, your always hearing horror stories about people going back to their ex, this way you wouldnt have to worrie, also it would mean that you would become his first love, I would love to be the only person they have had intercorse with, it would make me feel special as you wanted to lose their virginity to me.
Anyway I dont see any problems with this, if anything I find it more of a turn on. Good luck x
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reader, Little Miss Love +, writes (19 July 2011):
 some girls will see someone who has never been in a relationship as if they will not know how to treat them, or that they will take everything way too seriously which scares some girls so basicly if you just react to them by saying you haven't found yourself in a position where a relationship would suit before now they will feel more comfortable :)
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (19 July 2011):
 I would simply explain that you are saving yourself for the right girl. This will probably have the effect of an Axe commercial where every girl within a 200 mile radius comes running towards you vying for your attention. lol.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (19 July 2011):
 The girls you are friends with probably just want you to be happy, thinking you aren't when you aren't in a relationship, or have ever experienced love.
It does make us wonder why you haven't, if it is because you don't want a relationship, if you're incapable of affection or empathy, or what are the reasons. Or it can make the ladies think you might be gay. It's unusual, thats all, and makes us wonder why.
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reader, Star xxx +, writes (19 July 2011):
 Hi
I think the fact you are a virgin and have not had a relationship before is an amazing quality and shows that you are not prepared to rush into anything.
You dont need to lie, be yourself and you will find the right person for you, anyone that mocks you is not worth it anyway.
Take care xx
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