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writes:Hi cupid, I'm a "straight" guy age 24 and im still virgin.. is it normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2011): Virginity is what you make of it. You want it to be a big deal? The it will be. Otherwise, it doesn't matter at all.
I could happily be a virgin for the rest of my life and I wouldn't care, if people don't like it, the joke's on them.
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reader, blueskyday  +, writes (15 July 2011):
actually i find that quite attractive in a guy to hold out, it means he doesn't sleep with just anybody.
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (14 July 2011):
 I see this is becoming a mental insecurity for you. Take action and just get laid any way u can. Its your v card man, just get it done and over with so you can move on. Youll gain better confidence with women and also feel better cause youre with the rest of the group. The psychology of women will tell you they hate "wussy" men... and by remaining a virgin, you possibly risk them seeing you as that cause it could be an indicator u lack confidence with women and believe me they hate a guy who cant hold his own. I lost mine at 25... I regret holding out for so long. Good luck on your decision.
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (14 July 2011):
 It's normal. Nothing to worry about.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (14 July 2011):
 Quite, yes.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (14 July 2011):
 sure you are later than some people, but don't see it in terms of being 'normal' or not. you are who you are. virginity does not define you, you are more than that.
you will lose it when the time is right and you meet the right one. better to lose it late than lose it early with someone you might regret
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (14 July 2011):
 Of course it's normal, and commendable also. Don't feel bad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2011): Is it normal you asked? I'm going to say it is a bit unusual, but there is nothing wrong with being a virgin at your age. There are plenty of virgins whom are in their 20's 30's. I used to worry about my step-son...thinking that he might be gay, because he was a virgin at 22 years old, but I found out that he didn't want to put his dick into any woman whom he considered to have low values or an easy woman. He went off to college and lost his virginity at age 24 to a virgin female whom was studying to be a doctor. He has since been with about 9 females, all whom he considerred to have upstanding morals (I personally think they were just high sedity freaks, but alas, whom am I?) Don't feel like the odd man out....you are fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2011): Dont worry about it dude, when you find the right person it'll happen
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