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Archived questions from: June, 2016 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

He's giving me the silent treatment right now, Will he return to me? I know he's abusive but I want him back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - I recently learned that the guy im dating is a narcissist. We've been through at least 3 cycles of devalue/discard and a recent cycle of re-idealization. He's giving me the silent treatment right now, will he ever return my calls or come ar...

Is it normal to be feeling as I do? And despite years together, I am always anxious around my husband

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - I am in my 40s and am married to a very good man. Kids are grown and out of the house. My husband was away for a month, as his parents recently passed away within 3 months of each other, and he closed business for a month to spend time with his sist...

What are we ? Last night he told me "you're not my girlfriend".

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - I'm having the most troubling time. I'll start explaining from the beginning. (lets call him J) I met J my first year of college. At the time we both had someone we were dating, so we never bothered getting close or anything. maybe 2 months p...

Passion has gone from our private life. We don't get out socially together enough. How do I woo her back again?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3021 days ago

29 June 2016 (M) - My wife and I have been together for 8 years now. We met in China and for several years, things were rocky. Then after so much conflict and so many problems, things settled down. We are looking forward to our first home settling so we can move i...

Based on my observations, does my crush have a boyfriend? Or am I getting it wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

29 June 2016 (M) - I am friends with a female who ive got a crush on at work. I really like her, and she is a kind and friendly person with a beautiful face. We talk now and then to each other and say the odd hello how are you, as we don't get a chance to talk muc...

I love some who I can't have. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3068 days ago

29 June 2016 (F) - What do you do when you've fallen for a guy who just ^^^ks with your head? Okay so one of my best friends a while ago we admitted we liked one another, but not wanting to jeopardize the friendship we agreed to keep things normal. Well that didn't ...

I'm jealous because my girlfriend is still friend with a guy she hooked up in the past! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

28 June 2016 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for a year. I found out about this guy on facebook she has him as friend on facebook and instagram, she had feelings for him when she got divorced years ago. I don't know if she talks to him or text him on a daily ...

My boyfriend of 4 years has been speaking to his ex, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

28 June 2016 (F) - Hi Guys, I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years with a brief break in the middle. I have just discovered that he has been texting/sexting his ex from around 5-6 years ago, possibly his first official relationship. From the beginning, we have b...

Should I try to get closer to him once more? I have a major crush on this guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

28 June 2016 (F) - I'm a young lady who has never been in a relationship. I'm the type of girl most guys in my neighborhood would describe as difficult and not easy going. I'm very humble and care for people but when it comes to these guys asking me out, I become v...

Is it wrong to sleep with a distant cousin? In my culture some disapprove of this.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

28 June 2016 (M) - Is it wrong to sleep with distant cousin? Not even real distant cousin. Its just that both of our family have same family name. I hate when all of my and their family meets like( cousin family) Also in our culture it is okay to Marry first co...

How can I address this? I have trouble trusting women and I'm feeling resentful that my dating experiences haven't been good.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

28 June 2016 (M) - I have a lot of trouble trusting women. I have female friends that I can trust to a degree. But when it comes to dating I can't really trust women because of my past with them. I'm 23 years old. I never had a good dating life and am resentful abo...

Should I ask him why he acts all giddy around me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

28 June 2016 (F) - People tend to think i'm a teen still in high school, but i'm a grown adult woman and well the city bus driver is sexxi as ever. Two days ago he did a 360 degree turn to look me directly in my eyes just smiling his azz off and he was like “hey litt...

Is it cheating if a man, married or in a relationship, has a happy ending occur after a massage?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

28 June 2016 (F) - Hi ladies (and gents), I was searching for some opinion here! Long story cut short, what do you think of a married man or your spouse getting a happy ending after a massage? Would that be considered as cheating? Would you be upset if he told you...

How do I get over the desire I feel for my cousin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

28 June 2016 (F) - I've been in relationships before. Once married and now divorced. But I've never felt what i feel for my cousin. He is my uncle's son. We've seen each other twice during our childhood. But now, he is this accomplished man who's stirring this wa...

Why can't I let go? Breaking up has left me feeling so low.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

28 June 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of six months broke up with me over text a month ago- I get it the relationship wasn't exactly a two way street. We did everythingn in his time and I put up with a lot more than I should have- like him bringing his friends over on date ...

I feel that no one will give me a break. How can I gain more acceptance in a work situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

28 June 2016 (F) - I feel like I'm being discriminated against at work but it's the restaurant owner! I messed up in the past and felt VERY lucky to have gotten the job I did. Right after my arrest, I applied for every job I could and landed a job as a barrista...

Is my boyfriend selfish ? He is happy to receive, but will not reciprocate following times when I pleasure him

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

27 June 2016 (F) - my boyfriend never goes down on me. one day i asked why don’t you do it, he said he is not comfortable..so he don’t to do it. BUT i love doing it.. i more than comfortable doing it . one time he asked me.. i thought he will reciprocate so i did it.....

Breaking up was the right decision so why do I feel bad now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

27 June 2016 (F) - I was okay for two weeks when busy traveling for work, but home now and thinking about this man I was seeing for the past four years. It was a difficult relationship and never really knew where I stood with him. If I was being real, I would al...

His attentions aren't unpleasant but I'd like them to stop

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

26 June 2016 (F) - How do I stop a guy from flirting with me - I never flirt back. I'm not rude towards him. I am just civil. But I am shy and he may get the wrong message. I laugh at his jokes, but only when they're funny. This may sound weird, but I don't thin...

Is it weird that I'm reluctant to date a girl so much younger than me? She's 19

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

26 June 2016 (M) - Okay so Friday night I went out with a friend of mine, and we met some girls of which one seemed to be taking a liking to me. She looked fairly young and these days girls look a lot older then they actually are. But apparently she's 19 years old. ...

Is something going on, or am I reading too much into this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

26 June 2016 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years we get on really well and his family are like my family the problem is any woman that walks past he stares till she's out of sight now he received a text this morning asking saying is this for instance john ...

Why do some young women go out to night clubs dressed they way they do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - Why do the women at the night clubs dress like s^^ts?? So I'm talking here about women who wear clothes with plunging cleavages, booster bras, short skirts and the like. We went to a club last weekend and there were many women barely dressed. ...

Do I trust my instincts or wait till he asks me to visit him at his place?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - Am in a relationship with someone I met through a dating site two months ago. he is very nice and everything seems to be going on well. however he always comes to see me over the weekend whenever he has time due to the nature of his job.. Have n...

Four months into the relationship, so why is he choosing to sleep in a different bed to me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm dating a guy younger than me for past 4 months. We hang around in his place during weekend. It's the second time I find him sleeping in living room because he says he steal his blanket and he can't sleep or I turn around a lot. ...

How do I tell my parents? What should I say to my Auntie? Is the age gap too much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months is 14 years older than me (me, 19 years of age) we are happy together and take our relationship seriously. My parents are still not aware of this relationship as I am worried to tell them just because of his age. However ...

Was it right for me to say what I said? will this break help us sort things out for ourselves?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

25 June 2016 (F) - A few nights ago, my boyfriend and I called a break because he and I wanted to find time for ourselves. Since we've been dating for four years, we thought it was time. We still love each other but I want a break for two weeks because I feel we ...

Is it Okay to ghost in this situation? I feel that he's lost interest in me.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I've been dating someone for three months now. The first two months were great, he was very affectionate and planned thoughtful dates (as did I). He reached out daily and I reciprocated. We met twice a week. However this month he's been busy w...

Is there such a thing as relationship anxiety? How do I manage this anxiety?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I've had horrible experiences with exes. My first love cheated on me twice and both times he choose the other girl over me. That in a sense kind of left me emotionally scarred and since then I haven't had a relationship last more than a couple o...

She rejected my invitation. I still want to be friends. How do I keep things light when I see her again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

24 June 2016 (M) - Hello agony aunts So this week I asked a female friend of mine if she wanted to meet for a coffee sometime and I mentioned we don't get opportunities to talk at work with our different schedules. Which is true as we don't do, anyway to cut ...

Before I met her she had sex with my cousin. How do I get over this fact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

24 June 2016 (M) - I met this girl months ago and we've been dating since them, i'm really trying to forget and avoid jealousy but it's not easy! The fact the i have sex with the same girl my cousin had bothers me too much! I think about breaking up but i love her...

Does he feel rejected? I'd like to know, how can this be fixed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I have a weird situation and need opinions please.. Talked to this guy online, Skype, phone for three years(I know I know "you never met him")... But it was budding pen pals to friends to romantic interest. There was a possibility of s...

What's your opinion of age gaps? Does he really like me? Or does he have a different motive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - Okay so first.. What's your opinion on age gaps?? What's to big of an age gap? There is a guy at my work ( I work in a factory) who works second shift while I work first. He is 12 years older than I am. When I very first started working there he...

I probably shouldn't take him back. Is what I did to him worse than what he did to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I was involved with my ex-boyfriend for many years we are friends first so I've known him a really long time. We know each other very very well. He had some substance abuse issues and during that time cheated on me multiple occasions. When I fi...

He says I do not set aside enough time to spend with him. What should I say or do in response to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3076 days ago

24 June 2016 (F) - I am in a relationship with a guy from my office. I'm a self confessed workaholic and he is always complaining that I don't make enough time for him on the weekdays. However every alternate weekend, he goes to his parents house where he maintai...

Is rejection good or bad? How does one accept and deal with rejection?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

24 June 2016 (M) - I asked a female who is beautiful from work on social media if she fancied meeting me for a coffee to get to know me better. This was today, we are good friends on social media, and I decided the time was right to ask her and to seize the day. And...

How can I fit in with new work colleagues? Some are not very nice

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3076 days ago

23 June 2016 (F) - Some of our departments have merged at work, whats a good way to get along with new colleagues? Edit None of us new to the workplace but 1/3 of us ( maybe 13 of us) have moved to new much bigger a...

What would you do if faced with these situations from his family and the friends from his country.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

23 June 2016 (F) - Hello I am middle aged and have been married for over 12 years. Both my husband and I are from diff countries and our cultures are different. I moved to Canada and married him, im from UK and hes from another country There have been times whe...

He's accusing me of not locking the door. Why would he become be so accusatory towards me??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

23 June 2016 (F) - I just moved into an apartment with a room-mate. And there's been a situation that I would like your opinion on: My room-mate came home after being gone for a week, and discovers some boxes for him on his bed, that he ordered. So he asks me if I ...

Do I keep lying to her or tell her the truth? Nothing fits any more.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

23 June 2016 (M) - I been with my gf for 4 years and she has put on weight since. I'm not bothered because she is really attractive with extra weight on. However if I mention it she says she doesn't like it. So I don't mention anything anyway however now all her ...

Beginning to hate this marriage. Is he just trying to control me via money I earn? What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

23 June 2016 (F) - Really could do with some help. I've just passed a course so I can teach English to foreign students. My husband is from Poland and wants me to go and live there with him. Five years ago I gave him a few thousand pounds which I never saw again and ...

Could it be that my husband of 15 years is not into me any more but is reluctant to admit this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

23 June 2016 (F) - Could it be that my husband of 15 years is not into me anymore but is reluctant to admit it even to himself? I don't want to make HIS problem into something about me, but it's been going on for a while and after looking for causes and trying a...

All I think of when his name is mentioned is anger and hate!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

23 June 2016 (F) - I had a bad breakup with my ex boyfriend in 2014 December before new year's eve. We dated for four months before the break up. I was not happy with him because he wanted to take my virginity even when i told him many times politely that i was not ...

I feel I'm missing out on a experience that I desperately want to feel.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3077 days ago

22 June 2016 (M) - I'm a man and I'm confused about my sexuality with no idea how to confront it. For as long as I've had an identity I've never labelled my sexuality as what's between the ears has always been more superior to me opposed to how someone identifies. ...

What can I do? Don't want it rubbed in my face. But she says I'm offloading my insecurities by being upset with her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

21 June 2016 (M) - My friend upset me again talking about interacting with another man who she has a past with... I've covered with her in the past that she's to have as much fun as she can with whomever she feels like regardless that I'm mad about her. We have f...

Feeling really depressed that I have never been asked out. How should I approach this problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

21 June 2016 (F) - I get really depressed because I have never been asked out despite putting myself out there. I volunteer, I also work in retail. No guys like me and I see other girls who are always asked out and hit on but I am always left out. I am 5'6 and w...

Help! What can I say? I'm a gay female being set up at work ! I'm scared and unsure what to do.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - Im a single GAY female over 40 and today at work as I walked in tea room I overheard her talking to another manager about setting me up with a 26 yr old asian guy who used to work with us and who likes me! And how I am " over 40" The other mana...

Can you please advise what to do? My lesbian partner has been exchanging explicit messages on line with a man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3078 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - I found explicit emails between my lesbian partner and a man on craigslist. I found some printed copies of her replies to a mans advert on craigslist. The man wanted to meet her for fun in exchange for money. My partner always brags about being ...

How do I tell my LDR guy and get him to understand that this level of contact is not enough?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - Hi everyone, thanks for reading! Im not sure how to approach this - i basically need to talk to my boyfriend about being more in contact. We are doing a long distance relationship at the moment and everything was fine (we were skyping a few t...

What do you miss about an ex that makes you want them back?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3058 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - Hey! This is mainly a question for guys out there - I'm just wondering; when you think about an ex that you would still want back, what are the reasons you miss them or hold on to them still? (apart from loving them etc) - Maybe qualities they h...

Am I being a pushover? I'm trying to overlook that he saved nude of a coworker!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3079 days ago

20 June 2016 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now. We were able to make a long distance relationship work for about a year and then 9 months ago he changed jobs so that he could move in with me. Our relationship has always been pretty strong ho...