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writes:Am in a relationship with someone I met through a dating site two months ago.he is very nice and everything seems to be going on well.however he always comes to see me over the weekend whenever he has time due to the nature of his job.. Have n clue where he stays and neither has he invited me there..last tine I asked he told me he was hosting his last born sister who was on vacation from campus..i have become very uncomfortable and uneasy about it but don't know how to ask coz I feel he wasn't sincere with me.Do I trust my instincts or wait till he asks me to visit him at his place? Reply to this Question
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (25 June 2016):
 Could it be because he's still living with his parents and is embarrassed to say so? At 2 months you should have a glimpse of where the relationship is going in the next few years. If he's hiding something, it could be because he has a wife already, or the fact that he's too broke to live on his own. It's possible that his sister needs a place to stay, but that doesn't mean he has to take the whole weekend off. His daughter is an adult, not a small child that needs supervision all day. Maybe you can do a search online to find out if he's married and where he lives. If you can be sure that it's his real name, his real age, it can be done.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (25 June 2016):
 I'd trust your instincts and drop him. I just wouldn't stick around for suspiciousness. Why aren't you going out to places, rather than him coming to your house after only two months?
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