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Archived questions from: May, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Is this just a 'guy thing' or disrespectful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - Okay, I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and he has a blog, on this blog he posts pictures regularly of girls bums/girls in lingerie, raunchy stuff etc. He knew it got to me and I've asked him so many times to stop it and he doesn't ...

Red flags all around but girlfriend insists that nothing is wrong

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

31 May 2012 (M) - Hello, I have a big issue and need alot of help. I would like to say thank you for reading this ahead of time as it will quite long but required in order to understand the issue. So, thank you. I have been seeing my gf for 5yrs or so, granted within ...

Boyfriend cheated - What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4591 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 14 months and I've just found out that when he went to south africa in november for a month he kissed some girl who was friends with the family he was living with. I found out because he asked me to print so...

I don't think I've had an Orgasm yet. But what can I do about my more urgent problem? During and after sex? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - I am a 21 yo girl and do not think i have ever had the big O. When my boyfriend goes down on me i often always have the sensation of peeing when i do not have to or have nothing to pee out. However, I have a had an accident or two when the "pee...

Is this a missed opportunity? And should I start chasing him? or let it go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4588 days ago

31 May 2012 (?) - I have had crush on the most introverted guy I’ve ever known for the whole duration of my degree course. And I have a feeling that he likes me based on the long stares and he always seems to be there, but as soon as I talk to him or try and invo...

Can anyone help me? Moms? Dads? Anyone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - i am so sick of my mom! i am about turn 16 going to be a junior! but my mom doesnt seem to understand.. that i want to go out. she claims to be my bestfriend. and then when i tell her things she throws it in my face. like what the freak! she doesn'...

He already has a girlfriend of a year and has been married twice

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4592 days ago

31 May 2012 (F) - A man recently added me on Facebook through a good mutual friend. First we just made friendly conversation and such, then he asked if I wanted to meet up for coffee. I agreed. We got along really well. He already has a girlfriend of a year and has ...

When is a good time to start doing things like going and hanging out with friend, activating my Facebook again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - Hello .. Well my boyfriend has broken up with me,and this isn't the first time it's happened. He said he couldn't trust me,i've never cheated or lied but he has and he thought i would try to get back at him for it,but i wouldn't have done anythi...

So much promise. And now nothing? How do I handle my online friend? was he ever genuine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4593 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I have been chatting with a guy online and via web com and mobile almost everyday for a month. The guy got so much into me and he swore and made me believe him that we have future this and that. He wanted to come to see me to the UK as he lives in...

Subtle ways needed. Is there a way of bringing him round to my wish for slow lovemaking?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - I am very happy in my relationship. My partner and I enjoy our time together and have regular sex. But the problem is, it's always hard, fast sex, if you know what I mean! It's good and he drives me wild but sometimes I just want to 'make love' as...

My Gay crush .Want to move on and forget. How can I understand why I'm so affected?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4456 days ago

30 May 2012 (M) - This has been a problem for too long now and I really need help with this issue concerning an ex friend. I’ve never really had many friends in my life but I’ve never let it bother me when I moved on from the few friends that I did have. But this...

My boyfriend got another woman pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4586 days ago

30 May 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have known eachother for years. We finally started a relationship that was almost 2 years now. I took a break I wanted it. It didn't feel like a break at all. We were still sleeping together. He wasn't giving me space. So I ...

I don't really believe him about the Facebook fiasco but I don't know why he would lie about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - dear cupid, soo, about a month ago, i asked for advice on here after i found out that my ex-boyfriend (with whom i am basically back together with now) was hiding things from me on facebook; the name of the question was, "should i not make a big d...

Is my boyfriend controlling or just insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Sometimes I feel like my boyfriend acts like my father... if we spend time apart, he will often ask a lot of questions. I think he worries about me more than he should, because he is insecure and because I am so much younger than him. If I go ...

I'm wondering if he will ever forgive me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - So I have been dating this amazing guy for 5 months and about a month ago things started getting rough. He said work was super stressful and he didn't have any time anymore. I tried really hard to respect him and give him his space but it got to ...

Can I trust my fiances denial although it seems he is caught red handed and he has a history of deceit?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Before I ask my question I need to provide some background information about my fiance and I. -He is not my child's biological father -We have lived together for about a year and a half -The first 6 months of our relationship ( we've bee...

You'd think that after over 7 years together he would know! And the cheating thing still bothers me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Hello, I wondered if you could share any thoughts on my situation please? My boyfreind cheating on me about three years ago (I know he did as I heard something I shouldnt have) I cannot confirm it with him as he point blank denies it but whilst I ...

My boyfriend doesn't trust me, how can I get him to feel more secure in the relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - Hi Dearcupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for about six months now, but there is an underlying problem in our relationship that I don't know how to approach. My boyfriend is kind, wonderful, so giving and supportive, but he has a hard tim...

My wife is pregnant, did she cheat on me and is having someone else's baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 May 2012 (M) - My wife and I have been using the withdrawal method of birth control. If the timing works it is about 96% effective. While there were a few occasions several months ago where the timing may have been in question, this past two months, since her last ...

Caught my boyfriend cheating but he claims it was just a friend, I don't know what to believe! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4595 days ago

29 May 2012 (F) - So i dated this guy for the longest time. About a year and 6 months. We argue a lot but we only broken up once and it was for a long period of time, we got back together but i never really had time to talk to him as much as i would like...Not ...

Does love no longer exist?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - Why does this keep happening? Does love not exist anymore? So my ex boyfriend cheated on me. I thought we were in love. We were on the phone all the time, I knew when he was showering or eating. I thought I knew his whereabouts but I was wrong....

I snooped and found my boyfriend had been lying about watching porn, how do I trust him again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - How do I trust my boyfriend again after he lied and promised he didn't watch porn, but I found out he does by snooping? What should hurt more the fact he broke a promise and lied or the fact he did not come straight out to tell me he watched it? I ...

He is 'liking' other girls statuses on Facebook, is he looking to trade me in for someone else?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4596 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - Both me and my partner are on Facebook and before we got together he would always like my statuses and some of my pictures and he also did this to a previous girl he dated. We have been going through a bit of a bad patch and I have noticed he does ...

I feel awful that we had our first fight... what can I do from here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4596 days ago

28 May 2012 (M) - I have been seeing my lovely girlfriend for a couple of months and all has been great. She was with a bad guy before and i do treat her well, how she deserves and it's very sweet but she seems to think i am " the perfect guy" . We see each other m...

I'm so sick of being punished for something I didnt do! What can I do to prove to my boyfriend I didnt cheat?

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28 May 2012 (F) - I've never cheated in my entire life. My long lost colleague found me on facebook and ask for my pin for bbm. Since then we where busy chatting. He greeted me by saying hi love once and my bf saw it and now he assume that I'm cheating on him. I've ...

Online friend devastated that I had boyfriend. He doesn't believe that I care for him but I do. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4594 days ago

28 May 2012 (F) - I have been talking to someone for four years from India. He is younger than me and we talked everyday all day and night. Recently I told him about a guy I was dating here. Now he has totally lost his mind. He tried to kill himself and his friend is ...

He is a good husband but a womanizer!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - about 5 years ago my husband and i had been not intimate with each other because he was busy with his married gf but the affair stopped 2 years ago. he got another young gf after that and told me three months ago she was pregnant.he is a good ...

I have found out A LOT of dirty secrets about my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

27 May 2012 (F) - My relationship has had it's ups and downs from the beginning.. now almost 3 years in, I have never felt more lost. Over the duration of the relationship, I have found out A LOT of dirty secrets about my boyfriend. For months, he would do nothing...

This 18 year old girl really likes my cousin but he's married!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4597 days ago

27 May 2012 (M) - So in camping with a lot of people and this 18 year old girl really likes my cousin and has told her friend that she is gonna try something tonight with him. He just got married a few months ago and has a kid on the way. That girl knows he's ...

My boyfriend's friends took him to a strip club for his birthday...and I was there with them!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4597 days ago

26 May 2012 (F) - Well, my boyfriend recently had a birthday. We have been happily together for over a year and I love him more than anything on the planet. I even moved from Ohio to Hawaii to be with him! Anyway, my boyfriend and I went out with a bunch of his good ...

Can I be friends with my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4598 days ago

25 May 2012 (F) - My ex-boyfriend and I started speaking again 5 months ago, after over a year of no contact after we broke up. We're extremely close and neither of us have the desire to get back together (although I wouldn't say those feelings have completely died ...

My girlfriend left me in a bad state

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4594 days ago

24 May 2012 (M) - I had relationship with my gf for almost 1 year. in this period of time we had many fighting about Unimportant problems.I loved her but she was ordering me to do what she wanted. in all dispute I was Placating. recently I got sick and had terrific...

Does he like me, or is this a fling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - Hello I'm amber,,just want to as something that really confusing my mind,.i met this guy for just week now and I really like him and I know him also,so we had a lunch and spend that day for whole night..hes really so gentle man and always send me ...

Is this fair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - I know this not a relationship question, but I just want to know if I'm being treated unfairly. So my dad passed away not too long ago and I had to live with somebody else now, she took custody of me. She applied for a benefit so I can' get stuff ...

Are my emotions boiling over because I have held in my emotions for so long?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4600 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - I tend to hide my emotions. I only want people to see the happy excited hyper energetic side of me. I hide my emotions becuase it seem like when I'm happy I make others happy. I hate to let people down so I try to be happy for the sake of ther ...

Am I jealous or insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

24 May 2012 (F) - Am I jealous or insecure. I was visiting my bf. As I was busy preparing breakfast, my sixth senses told me to look outside of the window as I was watching I saw my bf passing something to this woman. When he came inside the house I asked him what ...

My fiance has x rated photos of his ex on his computer. He promised to delete them but never has!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - I am engaged to a man that I love very much and on a day-to day basis treats me very well. About 6 months ago, I was updating and "weeding" out some computer files, when I discovered that he was had hundreds of photos of his ex wife. I think it ...

After spending the weekend together he mysteriously disappeared! What happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4600 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - i've been dating my boyfriend exclusively for about a month now and since we started, we've talked pretty constantly by text all day every day when we're apart. this last weekend, i went and stayed with him and it was all normal. he was ...

My friends and family believe that this guy is bad news but he makes me happy. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

23 May 2012 (F) - I'm pretty sure there is no other position like mine anywhere else in the world. It's so confusing. Me and this guy have been on and off for a while. We were friends with benefits at first but I began to fall in love with him and he did too. We ...

I'm pregnant and don't feel excited about that or my boyfriend. Will these feelings pass?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - Hey, I need some help to understand why I don't feel emotionally connected to my bf anymore, and if this means I no longer love him, and what I should do, please. We've been together 2 years, and at first, I was wary of opening up to him too much ...

What if we go to the beach and my boyfriend just wants to look at girls who are more fit and prettier than me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - Hi. I might sound insecure asking this, well because I am about the topic. I want to go to the beach with my friends and boyfriend. But the problem is that I am overweight. Not that he is in tip top shape but I am a size 12 tops and size 12/14 ...

How should I convo with him? He was looking at me. So why did he write to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4601 days ago

22 May 2012 (F) - I like this guy were both 19 and hung out yesterday but they (him and his cousin) said i was quiet and it was awkward, but i don't get it, because I ask him like what he does for fun, what do you usually do? what sports you like? what kind of music ...

Is my boyfriend being inconsiderate because he doesn't care?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4602 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - Hey I was wondering about boyfriends being considerate. If they don't appear to be considerate 100% of the time, is that them not realising they need to show it, or is it because they don't care? I feel my bf has only been showing it 40% of the ti...

Despite everything he did, I want him back. Is there still a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - On another note, do I still have a chance with my ex? We were together for 2 years and 4 months. I broke it off in October because he was an ^^^^le to me. He'd do drugs and drink and wouldn't let me hang out with my friends. He's a college fres...

Is it me? Are my expectations on how life should be realistic?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - I'm looking for advice on really what is acceptable Or is me? Are my expectation on what life must be like how it is realistic? My belief is that a person must not have more than one partner. Sometimes I feel like I'm different, or there's somethin...

How bad has porn addiction got to be before you dump someone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - How bad has porn addiction got to be before you dump someone? I would like to hear other people's stories.... I had a bit of trouble with my boyfriend at the beginning I know he's not as bad as my first boyfriend but he masturbated everyday he ...

Reunited after 9 years. So why is he so disregarding my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - This is a long one, so leave the page now if you don't like long stories lol. I am in a situation where I should be feeling on top of the world and settled. But I feel tearful and unsettled. I am in the process of getting back with my child's ...

Suggestions please? What do YOU do when a guy hits on your girlfriend in a club?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

21 May 2012 (M) - Me and my girl go out to bars / clubs quite a lot and a lot of the time,she dances with her girlfriend(s) and if i don't dance with her, i chill at the bar with my friends. She says to me how she loves what i do, as it shows i trust her and i know...

I don't want him to think I'm needy. I feel second best. So how do I get through my issues with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4603 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - Hello Can anyone offer any advice? I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months. At the start of our relationship he was a little bit of a jack the lad. He had this beautiful girl texting him, just as friends apparantly always had lots of kiss...

Marriage over. How do I restart my social life and start developing a circle of friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

21 May 2012 (F) - I have just said good bye to a pretty rough patch in life and a controlling husband and therefore have practically no social life. I want to begin having a social life - i have two kids AND a full time job so i'll have to make the effort and it wont...