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writes:i've been dating my boyfriend exclusively for about a month now and since we started, we've talked pretty constantly by text all day every day when we're apart. this last weekend, i went and stayed with him and it was all normal. he was affectionate as always, introduced me to his friends, we went out with his family and it was lovely. on monday, he dropped me at the train station but he didn't text me like he usually would a little while after we seperated so i text him. i got like 3 texts into a conversation before he disappeared all night. on tuesday when i woke up, he hadn't text me so i sent one and he said he'd been out on the motorbike as a "very old friend" wasn't well. he's never mentioned her before and didn't give a name. he said if he didn't reply just to leave him to it and then promptly disappeared after an hour of talking for the rest of the day until the night. he then text me, saying something was happening at his house and then disappeared yet again. this morning when i woke up, there was no contact still and i'm really confused.my last boyfriend did a similar thing. he wanted some space and after a week of no talking, we broke up. am i right to be worried? what should i do? give him the space he wants or try to fix it?i'm going to america for 9 weeks in just over 2 weeks when it'll be harder to talk... could this be him trying to cut me out? please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe thing is when i've stayed up at his before, or when he's been here with me, he's never gone quiet before or done this. this is a new thing...
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (23 May 2012):
 His disappearance is no mystery to some of us (oldtimers!)...
He got what he wanted (You put out.... didn't you?)... so, now, he's under no obligation to be nice to you....
Chalk it up to a very hurtful lesson and don't repeat it...
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