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male
age
36-40,
*ehrq
writes:I had relationship with my gf for almost 1 year. in this period of time we had many fighting about Unimportant problems.I loved her but she was ordering me to do what she wanted.in all dispute I was Placating. recently I got sick and had terrific nightmares.doctor told me that you have nerve problems.after last fight she told me that it's better to separate and she went. although she teased me but we had Good moments and good memory.now it's two month that she isn't with me.and i'm alone with my illness. I planed to marry with her.it's strange to leave somebody suddenly.isn't it?i'm in bad situation. what should I do?how can I trust to anyone else?how should I go out of this situation.I know this question is repeatedly answered but in my country Iran the culture is different from eastern or western country and I'm alone to solve this problem.making relationship again or have funny with problems?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 May 2012):
 She was trying to control you, and when she found out you had this illness with your nerves, she probably realised that she was effecting your health by the way she treated you therefore she done the right thing and left you. You should never let a partner walk all over you. You need to always stand up for yourself, a relationship should be about being equal. It sounds to me like you may have had a lucky escape.
I know it is hard to deal with a break up as well as having problems with your nerves and yes am sure it does get lonely. But just concentrate on getting your health back and then you can remember you are a single man and just go out and enjoy life. Am sure another woman will come along and if she does there is no reason NOT to trust her, as everybody is different and you should not compare her to your ex girlfriend or judge her on anything your ex girlfriend has done, just make sure you get over your ex girlfriend first and that you are ready for a fresh start with someone new before you start dating.
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